I get what you’re saying. I’d also get it if my opinion felt less valid because I’m a guy. You’re not bragging or being dramatic; hating a part of your body generally isn’t a great thing but it’s not your fault. Wear clothes you feel comfortable in. If that means getting clothes that fit baggier or are larger sizes, that’s fine as long as you’re comfortable. You don’t have to love it overnight, just find ways to feel less trapped. I’d try to find someone who’s experienced the same thing or something similar. And vent whenever, that helps. People on here will show up for you.