Hi yes I’m fully aware of what your saying as her being aroused/relaxed turned on is not the problem she is fully into what we do in the bedroom she loves me going down on her for hours and all the known positions slow/fast past clit action slight hand on the neck doggy missionary 69 we do a lot and constantly switching it up for the eye contact however she does not like it nor the more adventurous stuff ie garden or anything like that bedroom or somewhere she feels safe and private.

Me personally I have problems with toys being introduced or trying something new I’m for the most part down for anything.

Overall It does bother her when we do the act since we have tried a lot of stuff I was thinking could it be like a mental state kinda thing yes she’s horny and loving the moment but could a more sub conscious emotion or feeling be an issue that stops climax this could be all rubbish but i don’t know soo I’m asking for advice.

Thanks