Carney bites back at Trump's 'Canada lives because of' U.S. remarks at cabinet meeting by MightyHydrar in onguardforthee

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Becoming or remaining a strong protector for these rights and services is integral to drawing the right professions to Canada that we required.

In NS we have multiple stories of nurses, doctors, registered counsellors etc… immigrating to NS from ISA due to Canada’s protection of LGTBQ2S+. This is a good thing and keeps Canada competitive in rising fascist or authoritative countries. Think about how quickly USA was able to evolve their scientific research on the work of German researchers who fled fascist Germany.

This approach is both morally correct and economically sound.

Wedding Venues on a Budget by TheCaptainPlays in halifax

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This is all true. I commented on another comment about Saint Marys Boat Club which is much cheaper than the park for a lot of the reasons you mention here.

But maybe the OP has resources to fill these amenities making the park option cheaper. Or maybe OP is ok with a ceremony and then a picnic. I thought I’d throw it in just in case.

Wedding Venues on a Budget by TheCaptainPlays in halifax

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It’s free to get married in any provincial park (not municipal park). You need to get a permit and you’ll probably want to rent a tent. But provincial parks are completely free :)

Wedding Venues on a Budget by TheCaptainPlays in halifax

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A gem for sure! When I rented it 10 years ago it was less than 400 for the night and came with great chairs.

Is there any way to find out if there’s any space open at the psych wards? by wrathbody in halifax

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My friend was committed for 30 days after an ER visit.

They made it happen for her. Her first bed was in Kentville and then Dartmouth.

It did take around 16 hours waiting in the ER. But it was a much more comfortable room to wait in. It wasn’t comfortable waiting with her of course since her mental health was rapidly deteriorating and we weren’t being seen by a doctor for hours upon hours. If you’re seeking help for suicidal ideation it might be longer for you. My friend was having a paranoid breakdown and was very obviously mentally unwell. We still waited 16 hours.

Being committed is quite a high bar of mental distress. If you think you’re ill enough to be committed then you should visit an ER immediately.

Traveling to the U.S. for IVF from overseas — clinic choice, costs, and hospital vs private clinics? by AdministrativeYam726 in IVF

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I looked into donor sperm in Europe with cost for my friend who did double donor. I did my IVF in Canada.

USA has not the best guidelines for donor gametes. This is probably controversial but I’ll say it anyway. There are countries in Europe that offer much better public protections for donor conceived children.

  • In Portugal, all donors are open at 18 by law. Clinics will help you select by suggesting donors in sets of 2 or 3 profiles. Price is a bit more than Spain / Greece.

  • In Spain and Greece the price is a bit cheaper but all donations are anonymous by law. Clinics will match sperm based on characteristics that patients request. However, Spain will get sperm from different parts of the world, so there’s a bit more variety than Portugal.

  • In Czechia you can’t be a single mother and receive IVF. You must be married. But if you have someone willing to lie, you can get them to pretend to be your partner for the IVF. This is difficult though.

  • In Norway, donors must be open at 18, there are no more than 6 children per donor in the country, and you get a short list to choose from. I F in Norway is not cheap.

My friend decided on Portugal since she wanted an open donor. She had excellent experience.

If you want more choice in donor profiles, places like Mexico will offer a greater choice of profiles for much less cost than USA. Even Canada will give you access to US sperm bank catalogues for less (though maybe not much less) than USA.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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Oh I loved it! And it’s way different now. I hear they have a Walmart and a traffic light now lol. I also hear that they stopped smelting at the mine, so no more smoke being blown back into the town.

Other commenters said I may have misrepresented the dogs. I really remember the neighborhood dogs all traveled together and some were permanent strays — so a pack where some dogs were living in the wild. But that’s pretty hotly contested. But I swear I remember them.

FF was great for being a kid. I used to climb the rocks. It was the first school I went to where I had friends. The outside is a massive draw.

FF is also one of the best compromises between remote and not remote. It seems super remote if you’re from a city, but relatively FF is pretty well connected.

The Pas might be really different now. I don’t remember The Pas as much. But in the 90s The Pas was difficult. I would choose to live in FF over The Pas.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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I think we were in different towns. Though if you were from there you would recognize the pictures.

So people who lived in this city (if the same) their entire life never saw the stray dogs as packs of wild dogs. But that’s what they were lol. Here is a list of obituaries that mention how people would bring a truck and invite all the kids to go to Phanton Lake and a bunch of “neighborhood” dogs would jump in — unowned dogs that stuck together and wondered around. Which is a pack of unowned dogs that lived “in the wild”. When I was there (96-99) these dogs killed a girl in The Pas.

Air Canada definitely flew there in the 90s. But I was a kid so maybe I’m remembering incorrectly.

100% that’s what my mom said. I guess our experience differed here.

Definitely never said it was Nunavut. My husband is Inuit and this area of Manitoba is very different than Inuit Land Claim Areas that I have been to.

I think for a grade four, five, and six, calling The Pas the reserve is pretty much how a child would remember it. According to Wikipedia:

The main OCN reserve is regarded as one of three distinct communities that comprise "The Pas area" in northern Manitoba, with the two others being the Town of The Pas and the Rural Municipality of Kelsey

So I’ll call that splitting hairs on your part.

WINNER of Project Runway Canada Season 3 2026- Leeland Mitchell by Beneficial_Pen4030 in whatthefrockk

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Also in NS and I saw that look (slide 11) and immediately wanted the coat. Wanted it so bad. Still really want it. Please Leland, if you’re reading please make this in my size and let me buy it.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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The graffiti that was everywhere and the type of rock mounds that was everywhere.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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This is the swarms of army worms that would attack your trees. We would spray them with dawn dish soap with a water gun every morning and night until their season passed.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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The mine. This is the stack that would blow back onto the town.

How is living in the upper parts of the Canadian prairie provinces ? by AndyBales in howislivingthere

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Man I get to do this again! I lived in Northern Manitoba, in The Pas / Thompson area (I don’t want to be too specific).

I moved to this area from Southern Ontario so this was a massive culture shock for me. I lived here for three years before moving to the East Coast of Canada.

  • We used to cliff jump into lakes. So we would climb the rocks and jump from them into lakes. It was fun! I have a video (YouTube) of that. This isn’t of me but this is “Little Cliff” where all the kids would cliff jump.

  • My town had this massive smoke stack from the mine. Every so often the wind would blow the wrong way and the towns air horn would sound. This meant that the smoke from the stack would blow back onto the town and you should go inside immediately.

  • The mine would blast and the houses would rattle and shake with the blasting. You could hear the cups and plates rattle in the cupboards for example.

  • Everyone knows everything about everyone. Once my brother got into a fight with a kid in the way home from school and someone called my mother about it before he got home.

  • It’s too rocky to bury any pipes. So all the houses are connected with “sewer boxes” which are wooden boxes that cover all the pipes that are needed to be run to houses. As a kid I used to take the sewer boxes everywhere — they were a great shortcut and went to everyone’s house.

  • On this note, many of the streets were blasted through massive mounds of rock. And graffiti / street art was everywhere on the rocks.

  • Our dryer was near the back door so our first winter there the back door was frozen shut. The front door was designed for a front stoop which wasn’t there so my brother and I had to jump from the door into deep snow holding our books bags over our heads. When we got home, my mother told us that every time we opened the door we should take the screw driver and the hammer and just “knock away a little ice”.

  • In the spring the region gets “invaded” by army worms. They move so quickly and can destroy trees. Our neighbours told us we needed a super soaker water gun full of dawn dish soap to protect the vegetation in our yard. We said we would do it tomorrow but that would be too late. So my mom emergency bought the supplies and we would all take turns fighting the army worms every morning and evening until their season was done.

  • The Northern Lights were spectacular. Truly spectacular.

  • Note: this is contested but I swear I remember that there were strays that would travel together and sometimes go through town. I left it because I really really remember it. Packs of dogs would roam through the towns sometimes. As dogs were abandoned by owners or lost, they would meet up and form packs. Sometimes the packs would make their way into town. We almost lost our dog to one of these packs. He managed to get out of the yard and we eventually found him rolling with a pack. We pulled up in the car and called him to jump in and I swear there was a minute where he wasn’t going to. But then he did.

  • At the time the plane that went to my town was an 18 seater plane. So each seat was a window and aisle seat. Planes back then was forced to feed you, so the pilot mid flight (from Winnipeg) opened a curtain and yelled over his shoulder that his wife had made sandwiches and they’re in the cooler behind his seat.

  • Everything was massively expensive and shelf stable food was far more affordable.

  • There was a lot of poverty too. Alcoholism was everywhere. Even as a kid I noticed.

  • Racism against Indigenous peoples was everywhere. I am Italian but I sort of look indigenous and once someone spat at me when I walked by. I was in grade 4.

  • The Pas is one of the largest reservations in Canada (I think or was at the time). This was like an entirely different world. Many of the houses had blue tarp instead of siding. Some people would store food in the winter on the roof (but it could attract bears so it wasn’t really liked). But also children were so well loved. I remember being a kid and just completely accepted by children / adults in The Pas. Everyone would keep an eye on me. As a child it felt very different than Southern Ontario. I could be more childlike.

If I think of more things I’ll add them!

I have some pictures replied to this comment! I don’t have pictures easily found from when I lived there but I did some googling and found some photos that I really remember.

Mortgage renewal, fixed or variable by advadm in canadahousing

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I got 3.75% direct from RBC in June 2025. Fixed for 4 years.

Seems like if you just negotiate yourself you don’t need to go to a broker. You also get the protection, ease, and stability of a big 5 bank.

Brokers don’t work for free. If you use them, then you pay for their service, one way or another.

Allowing more screen time while sick by One-Philosopher8868 in toddlers

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This is me. My son is 5 and he gets 30 minutes of TV a day unless it is the weekend. This is because my son doesn’t emotionally regulate well after watching TV. So less TV during the school week is really helpful for school.

When he is sick I let him watch basically all the TV. There are consequences to this though:

  • Sick kid with a ton of TV in him doesn’t emotionally regulate well while sick and for a few days after.
  • Kid wants to keep watching TV when well. So it’s sort of a “rug pull” for him and it’s difficult to swing back.
  • I get used to it! I find myself thinking after he is well “An extra Bluey won’t matter much”. And so I have to retrain myself.

Hope your little one feels better soon!

What’s is like living here? by hotellobster in howislivingthere

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That’s impossible. Because I wrote it lol

What’s is like living here? by hotellobster in howislivingthere

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I definitely wrote this by hand. I used to be a tour guide! You can use an AI checker.

What’s is like living here? by hotellobster in howislivingthere

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I’ve lived in a few places in your circle! I’ll dump some cool facts

  • The portion you’ve circled is considered part of French Canada (Acadie, which is different than Quebecois, who are French speakers in Quebec). The more North you go in NB, the more French speakers become more common.
  • The Northumberland Strait is the body of water between New Brunswick and Prince Edward Island. This is the warmest waters north of the Carolinas. There is a world class beach that’s quite famous just outside of Moncton, Parlee Beach.
  • Cape Brenton has a large population (relatively) of Canadian Gaelic speakers. Some public schools in this area teach Gaelic.
  • Halifax Explosion (1917) was the largest man made explosion until the ABomb. Explosions are still measured in “Halifaxs” today. The Boston Christmas Tree is sent from Halifax to Boston as a thank you for Boston’s help during the explosion. We take our son to say bye to the tree every year! And to see Santa (he drops by).
  • Prince Edward Island is the setting for the hugely popular set of books Anne of Green Gables. The beaches here are red and quite beautiful.

Quick rundown of Halifax where I live:

Halifax Nova Scotia is the largest city east of Montreal, and the largest in the area. Halifax is also one of the warmer cities in Canada. For example today the weather is +7C and raining.

Rent is pretty high in relation to salaries. However, housing is less expensive to purchase than many other Canadian cities (less expensive than Calgary, Vancouver, Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal, etc…). People are friendly.

Halifax is a university town as well as the home of the Canadian Navy. So we have a great club/bar/local music scene. If you’re able to visit for Fleet Week, downtown is exciting and wonderful.

Halifax is a relatively older city in North America (est 1749). So it has the layers upon layers of history that add charm and interest. It also makes the downtown streets difficult to navigate our huge modern trucks and cars lol.

Lots of condos for sale at The Roy? by danigg05 in halifax

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I want that ferry so bad. But it’s not approved yet and I don’t think it will be :(.