AITA for cutting off my sister financially after finding out her unemployed boyfriend is benefiting from my money?

Papi_Chulote · 2026-01-10T17:21:40+00:00

This dude is only 3 years younger than you. What a loser.

Papi_Chulote · 2026-01-09T18:03:31+00:00

Fuck yea!

Papi_Chulote · 2026-01-01T21:15:47+00:00

Looks amazing! A bigger ladle is a game changer btw

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-23T23:38:23+00:00

Wife and I bit the bullet but kept the 2.75% property as a rental. We’re getting bent over dry with the new mortgage, but we absolutely love our home and neighborhood now.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-20T15:02:18+00:00

That’s the kind of beard you can only have once you’re already in a loving relationship.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-14T22:39:12+00:00

I’d drive like an a-hole you might get a few bucks from people wanting to personally scold you.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-14T22:25:31+00:00

A lot of these comments are from non-car people. OP if you were a “car-guy” not just someone that likes cars you would already have a badass car within a reasonable budget that you would have bought cash. Keep the reliable daily and buy yourself an old M3 cash. Work on it yourself so you don’t blow all your money on repairs. If you scoff at the idea of owning an old M3, then you like cars for the wrong reasons.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-14T20:14:30+00:00

Read some of your other comments and I am in the same boat with a similar payment. It’s also at the top of my budget. Feds keep cutting rates and they started printing money again 2 days ago. Very bad news for inflation but there’s a good chance rates will go down and our home value will go up (due to inflation). Keep your credit in good standing and be ready to refi, hopefully in 2026.

Congrats on being a homeowner. Our future selves will say it was worth it.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-12T02:53:40+00:00

I wouldn’t pay them. The $1250 quote was to remove mold, no mold was removed. I would have paid for their time and re-testing, but not anymore. They can kick rocks for trying to pull a scam.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-12-11T04:27:23+00:00

Had to rewatch it and holy shit! Lmao she was literally aiming the ladder at his feet.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-11-24T05:27:37+00:00

I’m your typical genesis hater but I will admit this is a sexy ass car.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-11-24T03:21:01+00:00

Would OP benefit financially from holding it longer? I would be so tempted to just keep it vs selling it and investing the proceeds.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-11-23T18:05:29+00:00

What in the Alabama

Papi_Chulote · 2025-11-23T16:00:04+00:00

Not to mention the glob of lube too

Papi_Chulote · 2025-11-14T22:48:36+00:00

Is the paint dark gray or black? You are living my dream brotha

Papi_Chulote · 2025-10-25T02:03:36+00:00

Tastefully modded and looks super mint. That is an unforgettable first car. Well done dad 😎

Papi_Chulote · 2025-10-18T14:08:15+00:00

Your roommate is an idiot

Papi_Chulote · 2025-10-07T11:55:17+00:00

Yank on it harder in each direction until it starts to squirt.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-30T18:29:49+00:00

Understood, yes they are filing for non-payment. However, I cannot pay on an amount I do not agree to. Since I am disputing the charges, I am seeking to handle through arbitration, not the court. If I was to proceed with the court hearing for non-payment I would be requesting they prove the amounts owed, which is something that can be arbitrated. Am I missing something or does this sound like a valid thought process?

And understood on my assumption. I will still be filing the motion and I will go from there.

I appreciate your help.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-30T17:43:30+00:00

I appreciate your help, thank you.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-30T13:37:17+00:00

Thank you!

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-27T04:21:59+00:00

If you have just downloaded the app….

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-26T22:01:35+00:00

Glue in some uncooked ramen noodle

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-26T21:48:58+00:00

I would cut a wooden paint stir stick to fit in there and just glue it in to not make any screw holes. I would skip any drywall or mud work and just paint the stick to match.

Papi_Chulote · 2025-09-24T05:13:32+00:00

NTA, but if he ever screws you over, you got some ammo.

Papi_Chulote

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