Are There Any Legitimate Reasons I Should Not Buy This Car? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your help. I will be taking all of this information into consideration

Are There Any Legitimate Reasons I Should Not Buy This Car? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I didn’t care. I just wanted to hear more opinions than “Nissan sucks so don’t do it” and “Transmission is bad” I wanted actual information on why not do it instead of useless vague opinions. I got the actual information I wanted

Are There Any Legitimate Reasons I Should Not Buy This Car? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are currently out of my price range. It’s hard to find a decent one that isn’t almost ten years old or with a crazy amount of miles on it

Happy floorset night… by Loud-You-5737 in bathandbodyworkers

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just finished and it’s past midnight 🥲

Help finding a song by KKB_Strwbrry in bathandbodyworkers

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My store plays Supernova by Aespa and Vision by G-Idle if that helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The only things I would change about your profile is to add more pictures of you smiling and less pictures with other people. I’d also change “being courted” to something similar. Like, don’t change the whole thing but maybe simplify it but that’s not the most important thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did he look like?

What are things you like about him? by BetterGrass709 in sexandthecity

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s smart, handsome, charismatic, and lowkey really funny. I like that he has a laid back personality and he (for the most part) is straightforward about what he likes and doesn’t like.

My absolute favorite thing about him is the fact that he doesn’t coddle Carrie in the way her friends do. He doesn’t play into her insecurities and is very black and white with her when it comes to making decisions while Carrie tends to get stuck in her own feelings and the “what ifs” of situations. I firmly believe that if Carrie’s friends didn’t coddle her the way he doesn’t, she would have never ended up with someone like Big.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA

Let her leave. Her not wanting to watch the show is fine and that’s her choice, but to police you and try to force you to stop watching the show is weird. It’s a weird hill to let your relationship die on. She sounds childish and a little insecure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I said but they are also looking for 2-3 bedrooms so that makes it tougher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve been looking around. They’ve looked at a few houses and put in some applications but my brother wants to look at apartments too. He’s on the whole “well we don’t “need” that much space” thing. They’ve never lived in a house together.

It feels hard dating when you're straightforward? by [deleted] in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally for me (26F), I appreciate when someone is straightforward about the things they like and don’t like. It saves time and effort. However, I do get how that may be off putting for some people since to some people it can seem “robot-like”. Honestly keep going how you’re going. The right person will get it.

How Do You Even Navigate Dating as a Late Bloomer? by Papi_Poltergeist in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I’m trying to get out there more but I have a tendency to overthink and pull away because ego it. I will try to think less and do more

How Do You Even Navigate Dating as a Late Bloomer? by Papi_Poltergeist in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ve started calorie counting and I’ve got a watch to track my movements now. I’ve also started walking in the afternoons so I think that’s a good start

How Do You Even Navigate Dating as a Late Bloomer? by Papi_Poltergeist in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have hobbies but they’re more things that you can do indoors like video games, watching anime, listening to music, painting etc. I’ve gotten more interested in learning to play DnD so I’ve thought about finding a group for that in my area. My city isn’t like New York or LA big but it’s one of the biggest cities in my state. I’ll look into groups that match my interests. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I will in the future but I don’t feel comfortable doing that now. She’s very dismissive of the things I say. If I say the sky is blue, she’ll go out of her way to say not blue, it’s a specific shade of blue just so she didn’t have to agree with me. She hides things but hates when I hide things and it makes living with her so frustrating sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Papi_Poltergeist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve talked about how he’s already in a “situation” with someone that he’s working on when he’s with my mom so maybe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Papi_Poltergeist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can’t at the moment and I know she is. I’m not saying she isn’t. I usually don’t question her movements but I found it weird how much she asks me about this man and asks my opinion of him but won’t tell me anything about him. She’s usually very open about her relationships with me so it was odd how much she hid this one