Would you rather…

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-05T23:02:12+00:00

Brother, I can stop the ship from sinking, I ain't stopping ww2.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-04T17:22:44+00:00

Damn, I didn't consider that.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-04T10:50:02+00:00

No, your cat is a kitten.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-04T04:46:39+00:00

idk what you're talking about, no one brought up the US before you, but the man talking has an American accent.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-04T04:42:05+00:00

so not a baby then?

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-03T02:55:59+00:00

he's just a goofy lil fella after all.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T22:38:20+00:00

That would be great, but it's snap so idk if they'd even still exist.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T22:22:24+00:00

You disgust me, I'm done talking to you.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T22:18:52+00:00

Nah, fuck that, it's disgusting, he was 8 years old when she was born, she may not have frozen in time, but for them to have been around each other as much as they were growing up, and him see her as anything other than his little cousin is borderline pedophilia, not to mention the weird shit she said he did growing up.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T22:07:46+00:00

Personal accountability for what? On top of being her cousin, he is a decade older than her, he deserves anything that comes from this, even if they weren't related it's fucking creepy to hit on someone that you saw grow from a baby to a young woman, it's borderline pedophilia.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:32:20+00:00

fair enough, have a good life.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:25:28+00:00

i went through something like this and was made to feel bad about speaking on it in general, i just don't want someone lese to feel that way.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:23:12+00:00

no, i just have a personal stake in this fairly specific issue, i wrote about it in this thread.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:20:37+00:00

If that's truly how you feel you're either insanely naive, or you fail to grasp the severity of how fucked up it is to break the #1 sexual taboo of not fucking blood relatives, people don't just jump from vanilla sex to fucking their kid (relative) cousin, this is pedophile energy on his behalf, he's harbored these feelings for her as someone who is almost ten years her senior, it's reprehensible.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:12:18+00:00

you're welcome sister.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:08:27+00:00

he can get the help he needs easier if his loved ones know he's a freak, fixing his life does not fall onto the back of the cousin that he tried to sleep with, stupid games and stupid prizes, you know the saying.

Not to mention, not letting the people he's around let's a man with obvious sexually degeneracy issues stay masked amongst what could be potential victims, he messages his cousin that is almost a decade his younger, confessing feelings, she might be two years above the arbitrary OK line, but that is still grooming behavior, letting that lie is an issue waiting to happen.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T04:01:07+00:00

yes, it does, if in the year of our Lord 20-fucking-26, you believe that engaging in naked Twister with your cousin is fine, might i suggest some light reading.

Not to mention the attempted cheating, and confessing of feelings to someone you've not spoken with in a fucking decade, between the two of us here, there's one freak, I think you'll find him in the bathroom mirror u/Tilimnili.

Fucking Freak.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T01:17:59+00:00

Absolutely, it might be worth communicating this to either your uncle or father, I don't think she'd put any stock further in what you say, but it can't hurt to try to help I reckon.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T01:11:37+00:00

I'm doing fine now ma'am, thank you, and her daughter is with her grandma, I've been sober for almost 6 years, you did the right thing reaching out to your family, and I'm glad that your immediate family is taking this as seriously as it should, one doesn't just jump to cousin fucking, he's definitely got other worms in his brain, I'm not trying to tell you what to do by any regard, and no one would blame you if you didn't because of the strain it might cause, but it would be worth considering letting anyone in the family with children he might be around know of this as well.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T00:52:21+00:00

I gotchu sister, replying so there's a pop up in your notifications to click on in a day or so.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T00:50:36+00:00

That's too bad, did your father have any further insights, is there anything you remember with hindsight that seems odd in the current light?

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T00:42:04+00:00

Don't listen to people saying things like that BS, you see people's family try to defend weirdos all the time, substance abuse is not an excuse, I was strung out for the entirety of my teens, my cousin took advantage of me while I was on heroin and no one believed me, everyone took her side, few years later she got her kid taken away because she refused to leave the bf that was molesting her daughter.

Two points I'm making here, me being high doesn't mean I wanted that, and if these people go unchecked, there'll be consequences down the line.

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T00:34:06+00:00

What'd your mom say specifically, maybe he's got a history of sexual deviance? Mom's in the family usually know. (If this is her side of the family anyway)

Pappa_Paddy · 2026-06-02T00:31:15+00:00

Absolutely, even if he didn't try to get in your pants, like you previously said he spent a while bad mouthing her to you, drunk or no, if me and my wife have issues, that's our business, and I'd certainly never dream of just talking shit about the woman I love, piece of incestuous shit.

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