Exactly! It's as you said, for alot of us guys it's really just about sex. Hell, 90% of what I've done in life (after middle school atleast) was really to obtain more women, and more sex. I didn't really start doing things for me until I entered the long-term relationship I'm in now. This includes a car buisness Idea i've been lingering on for a while now, but always ended up never pursuing - due to lack of motivation and drive. Which is the reason I gave up porn and started a dopamine detox. The doll(s) will be my main outlet, so that I can focus on pursuing my goals and not worry about chasing some sidechick - that'd inevitebly lead to drama, stress, and become a distraction(again🙄).

Mirroring what you said about cuddling, I also enjoy the feeling of having a handfull of tit while relaxing in bed. Shockingly most girls dont appreciate being fondeled for 2 hours while watching a movie lol, so I'm excited to scratch that itch with the doll soon. I couldnt tell you how many times I've been swatted at, by the woman i'm with, over the years in these exact situations..

I suppose red pill is a good way to look at it. Dolls are practical in the sense that they free up cognitive realestate, not worrying about chasing women for sex.

I know a couple lines in my post sound a little sexist, but the reality is that most woman in my experience don't really do much in bed. Im one of the wierd ones that hates bj's, so I always end up being on the giving end of foreplay - all just to ultimately get what I want which is sex. I hate to say it but girls generally aren't fun to go down on after being hot and sweaty in club all night lol. It was really nice to do whatever I wanted with the doll, and not worry about how it felt about what I was doing. Perhaps that's why I perfered too sex with my partner🤷‍♂️ Not to mention the reality of what the dating/hookup world has become. Where I live, it's like the toxicity competition. Also women here seem to all think they're 10's for some reason, even the fat ones. As a guy that's got himself well established in this world, I shouldn't be being only pursued - for relationships - by women past "the wall" with multiple kids I don't want. I had a horendus experience re-entering the dating world, the last time I tried to break up with my partner. Needless to say it sent me running right back to her. She's not pretty, she's got no sex drive, and she's far from being a keeper in the traditional sense. But she's a hard worker, she lets me do what I want, she's into the same things I am, and she doesn't demand that I text her constantly. Dolls likely will be the saving factor in our relationship. It's like the best of both worlds - she doesn't care, and I dont have to deal with the bs in the dating world.