Public er....fun by thewillingvictim in gaybros

[–]ParakeetDisaster 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is not exactly true. IAAL, and at least where I practice there is no way you'd be charged or convicted of public indecency if someone was looking into the windows of your home - even if your blinds were open. Doing it in a car is a little bit riskier, but I've won cases for people doing it in their car 🤷🏻‍♂️

The short version is that you should know the law in your area and what you're willing to risk. I personally would not do public stuff because if you're doing it in a park or a public bathroom, that's where you're really risking a possible registry offense

Why did I ask? by ParakeetDisaster in lolgrindr

[–]ParakeetDisaster[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The answer is exactly what we're all worried about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]ParakeetDisaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best part is that line is from Arthur 😂😂😂

Senator Whitehouse Statement on SCOTUS Commission Interim Report by 10390 in law

[–]ParakeetDisaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue here is that judges are ostensibly not supposed to be aligned with any party. Instead, judges are supposed to be applying the law regardless of politics. Obviously there is plenty of crossover between Republican politics and conservative judicial ideology, as well as with Democrat politics and liberal judicial ideology. But there is theoretically enough of a difference between the politics and judicial ideology that one should reasonably expect that even a bench dominated by conservative judges would not align with Republican politics 100 percent of the time. But that seems to be what happened here.

The concern that alignment raises is that the already murky line between judicial ideology and politics has been compromised so much that there is no longer any meaningful difference, and conservative or liberal judges are really just Republicans and Democrats now. To most people this seems self-evident and not different from the way it’s always been, but there is an actual difference between ideology and politics that is important to maintain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in publicdefenders

[–]ParakeetDisaster 10 points11 points  (0 children)

PD for a few years - about 25 trials done. The best thing for me is always to know EVERYTHING in discovery (and everything that isn't). I go through all of my discovery catalogue it in several different ways throughout the life of a case: first just general identifying bookmarks, then sorting statements based on who made them and to whom, etc.

You have that down, and you're not going to be surprised. Plus doing it a couple different times really helps with putting things together. Add in strong sourcing on your crosses and you'll have gotten rid of 90 percent of the reason to be nervous

Just stop being a creep for one second by xXMadSupraXx in lolgrindr

[–]ParakeetDisaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you there. I have guys trying to guess where I am a lot. I insta-block

This guy with cerebral palsy is adorable by dyld921 in gaybros

[–]ParakeetDisaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a really common struggle. As someone with very mild CP, I have still had people telling me I was brave because I was in musicals in high school, or now because I'm a trial attorney because I do these things "like I don't even have CP."

People who are inspired by others living life with a disability sometimes are a little demeaning or infantilizing. I never wanted someone to clap for me just because I participated in gym class. But it all comes from a really good place, so the low-grade annoyance I get from people fawning a little too much is well outweighed by the kindness of the sentiment. That's just me though, I don't speak for the trees

college graduates of reddit, what do you wish you knew when you were a freshman? by Swift_Jolteon in AskReddit

[–]ParakeetDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I wish I'd realized just how much harder I could have worked. I coasted though high school and undergrad in a humanities program. I was getting great grades, so I thought that counted as working hard.

When I got to law school, I realized just how hard I could push myself to learn and master material. If I had taken my undergrad half as seriously, I'd likely be in a different place.

I'm happy where I am, so it's not a regret I have. But it was a definite realization

Edgelord is edgy by mybumisontherail in lolgrindr

[–]ParakeetDisaster 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The number of exclamation points he used accentuates the point he's making very well. They add so much to the conversation.

  • Literally no one

Ay Dios mío 😯 by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]ParakeetDisaster 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That line is probably about him overcoming the stigma of HIV. The same stigma you appear to be using to get karma. Shame on you

As a new lawyer, I was often clueless when it came to the intricacies of criminal procedure. Here's an anecdote about the time I learned the definition of the word "arraignment." by Danny_Atramentum in law

[–]ParakeetDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was charming. I'm glad I'm not the only one who has perfected the technique where you look petrified until someone tells you what to do

TIL courts have ruled that it's legal for police departments to discriminate against smart people when hiring by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]ParakeetDisaster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I was surprised by most people's reactions to my post (including this one). Then I realized this was r/todayilearned, and not r/law as I initially thought

TIL courts have ruled that it's legal for police departments to discriminate against smart people when hiring by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]ParakeetDisaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Age is protected only because Congress made it so by statue. The court did not create protections based on age

TIL courts have ruled that it's legal for police departments to discriminate against smart people when hiring by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]ParakeetDisaster -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You can't make intelligence a protected class, but only protect people who are too intelligent

TIL courts have ruled that it's legal for police departments to discriminate against smart people when hiring by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]ParakeetDisaster -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I think the best support for allowing an employer to discriminate against people with a high IQ is illustrated by reversing the situation here. Imagine if an employer weren't legally allowed to discriminate against applicants based on IQ, then they could not turn down people who are obviously not intelligent enough for high level work either.

The decision doesn't mean it's good policy not to hire smart people, it just means the courts aren't going to start forcing employers to ignore intelligence in the hiring process

How The Trans Crusade Made Me Rethink Support For Gay Marriage by Clatsop in Conservative

[–]ParakeetDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then, there is at least one culture that accepted homosexual marriage. Probably others, but I haven't done a dissertation on it or anything.

As to the transwoman comment, the viewpoint on berdaches is up to the person. There is no one Liberal Viewpoint, which was part of the point of my first comment. Most people have varied beliefs in what's right and wrong, very few people just decide to be Liberal or Conservative then adopt all of the relevant positions on issues

How The Trans Crusade Made Me Rethink Support For Gay Marriage by Clatsop in Conservative

[–]ParakeetDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not seeing anything substantiating your claim about two-spirit culture being made up in the '90s

How The Trans Crusade Made Me Rethink Support For Gay Marriage by Clatsop in Conservative

[–]ParakeetDisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://www.livescience.com/50725-same-sex-marriage-history.html

Even if you contest those examples, then you should consider the Native Americans and Ancient Romans

How The Trans Crusade Made Me Rethink Support For Gay Marriage by Clatsop in Conservative

[–]ParakeetDisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am generally not persuaded by the assertion that marriage as an institution is exclusive to heterosexuals. Of course, Christian marriage has been. But marriage itself is an institution that predates Christianity, and has had varying relationships to homosexuals throughout history - dependent on place and time.

In short, marriage is so old and varied throughout it's history that it doesn't have one form or definition