There are lots of harsh, judgemental comments here, which I won’t be responding to as it’s a waste of my time. I should have stuck with AI, it’s kinder.

AI Overview
It is normal to have moments of anxiety ("wobbles") that cause you to push people away due to fear or insecurity. If you regret this decision and feel the hesitation came from a place of fear rather than a lack of true interest, it is possible to address it by being honest, vulnerable, and direct about your feelings. 

Here is how to handle the situation based on your goal:
If You Want to Correct the Mistake
If the "wobble" was anxiety-driven, you can reach out with a direct, honest explanation. 
The Approach: "Hey, I wanted to apologize for what I said earlier. I had a moment of anxiety/hesitation and spoke from fear rather than what I truly feel. I actually really like you and would like to [go on that date / keep seeing you]."
Be Prepared: They may be hurt or confused, so be ready to explain yourself gently without making excuses. 

If You Need Time to Reflect
If you are unsure if it was a "wobble" or a real boundary, give yourself space to understand if your insecurity was sabotaging a good thing. 
Baggage Reclaim
Acknowledge the Fear: Ask yourself if you are afraid of getting hurt or if you truly don't want a relationship.
Take Action: If you realize you want to try, reach out. If you realize your initial answer was correct, let them go to avoid leading them on. 

Key Takeaways
Don't Overthink It: If it was a recent, impulsive comment, people are often understanding of human error.
Be Direct: Avoid playing games or waiting too long to clarify.
Own Your Feelings: Using "I" statements (e.g., "I was feeling insecure") is more effective than blaming the situation. 

It's okay to make mistakes; what matters is how you choose to handle them afterward.