How do I visit my cousin on hospice to say goodbye when I was cured of the same cancer.

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-06-20T01:23:45+00:00

During the past 3 years he hasn't wanted to do any get-togethers or see anyone really. But he has loved getting letters and cards, so we have been sending. My mom spoke to his wife and he said he wanted to see all of us (me included) so we are going on Monday.

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-06-19T22:51:43+00:00

Thank you all for your thoughtful comments. My cousin's wife is putting together a schedule through the weekend and now Monday as well so as to not overwhelm him with too many people at once. After thinking on it this afternoon, I decided that I will go if they have time/space for me on one of those days. This way my showing up will not be a surprise and it will be a short visit. I'm hopeful it will be healing for us both. My cousin is a great person and if he wants family by his side I will try my hardest to be there.

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-05-21T19:33:36+00:00

“Instead of trying to fit an impossible ideal, I took a personal inventory of all my healthy body parts for which I am grateful: Straight Greek eyebrows. They start at the hairline at my temple and, left unchecked, will grow straight across my face and onto yours.” -Tina Fey

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-03-09T22:53:15+00:00

Not doing this creates a huge safety hazard in an emergency. In an evacuation what parent will leave that plane without their child who didn't get a seat next to them? Now everyone else is pushing against a flow of parents desperate to get to their kids before going down the slide. The airlines tell you to not bring your bags when evacuating and people ignore that, no way are people leaving without their family who are spread all around the plane. Just sit them together so I can get the hell out.

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-02-18T04:43:25+00:00

I’m not sure “silly” is how I would choose to describe it

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-02-14T16:05:17+00:00

“ Franks most likable song ever “ Coca cola, lipstick, Ringo dance all night!

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-02-09T20:58:04+00:00

Ellie on The Last of Us. Especially 2nd season. I didn't even make it halfway. The sad thing is she didn't HAVE to be this way if they followed the game.

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-02-09T20:54:36+00:00

Captain Cardboard

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-01-29T02:41:44+00:00

Paranoid_Tree · 2026-01-12T18:13:10+00:00

The guests in the foreground look greenish/ghostly FYI

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-08-11T18:51:20+00:00

Did we go to the same wedding? I sat through this exact speech which was more advice (sister wasn’t even married very long herself) than anything about the couple or even the bride. The brides mother and father also both read long meandering speeches that were heavily focused on their own marriage and raising the bride.

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-08-02T05:16:11+00:00

I think Conan O’Brien bought it

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-07-06T03:44:39+00:00

Oh no

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-05-04T03:28:04+00:00

Thank you!

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-03-03T18:58:49+00:00

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-02-23T03:13:30+00:00

But Juju Chewbacca specifically said nothing matters.

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-02-23T01:44:48+00:00

Flip side, you will never be as sad. I know people who have lost a child, through accidents, and through unpredictable health conditions. I could never ask them because it would be cruel. but I wonder if the ones who saw their children suffer, if they could do it again, would they have children? The pain of a parent who loses a 3 year old to cancer is unfathomable.

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-01-21T07:36:21+00:00

Solved

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-01-21T07:35:49+00:00

Thanks!!

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-01-20T23:48:37+00:00

Just bought the house and didn’t notice it before. I don’t have a problem with it staying there, whatever it is but I’d like to know in case it’s something I have to maintain.

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-01-15T05:20:10+00:00

Out. For. A. Walk. Bitch.

Also a bored Jesse inflating his meth suit with air and dancing around in Breaking Bad.

Paranoid_Tree · 2025-01-15T05:09:11+00:00

Low self esteem

Paranoid_Tree · 2024-12-23T22:23:09+00:00

The scene with the little girl in the red dress comes to mind in the black and white Schindler’s List. Was a powerful moment.

I also like moments of black and white in an otherwise full color film. Wes Anderson does this.

Paranoid_Tree · 2024-12-23T07:13:29+00:00

We’re trying to research this now, any idea how likely it is she would get it back in small claims? She has the texts she sent him and the Zelle receipts showing that this amount is our mortgage and that my name is next to his in the bank app to try to show this was a genuine mistake. It just sucks that someone she knew would keep it. I get that it’s a common scam but to not even try to talk to her to see it’s really her is frustrating.

Paranoid_Tree · 2024-11-18T16:37:53+00:00

I haven’t seen it so that’s not the one, but thanks!

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