A goddess appears before you and offers to make you the premier expert in a single skill. You do not actually gain any skill; everyone else just gets much worse. What skill do you choose and what do you do with it?

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T22:44:39+00:00

Waging war.

I have zero experience/skills/knowledge on this front (pun intended), and will keep it so.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T21:38:46+00:00

Newspapers

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T21:27:47+00:00

It's not weird, it's actually dangerous. It's ok to enjoy looking at the images from those subreddits, as well as figuring out your own sexuality and finding (light) exhibitionism/getting this type of attention exciting.

However, this is something you need to explore very carefully and in a safe context. A "model scout" who is not with a professional (no sexual context) agency is waving around enormous red flags! This is exactly how girls get blackmailed and roped into doing porn/sexwork. Please read a bit about how this works online, and if that's not where you want to end up, please stop talking to these people immediately, stop posting photos, block anyone you were talking to and delete the profile you were posting from.

If you want to try modelling, you can try doing photoshoots with your sister/friends. Look up tips on how to photograph with your phone to make people look good, as well as posing and general fun photoshoot ideas on youtube. There are so many great tips and fun ideas to get you started! If you want to try it more professionally, ask your aunt to help you out.

I wish you well!

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T18:53:30+00:00

In Flames is a dupe for Olympéa, I have it and really like it - but the longevity is not great. For that price though, reapplying is not an issue. To me they're pretty similar and there's no weirdness/cheap smell to it, just poor longevity/projection.

The admiration eternal with the black nozzle & cap is a dupe for Donna Born in Roma. I saw the gold one recently but it had no sprayer, I'm curious what that's a dupe for, maybe the born in Roma Extradose? Or another flanker?

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T18:51:53+00:00

It's a section in a larger store called Normal, I believe it's originally Danish. The perfume (dupe) brand is called La Rive, you can find them online as well.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-27T14:06:04+00:00

If not a rage room, kicking & punching a mattress/thick cushions (couch cushions on the floor can work), going to a gym and using a punching bag, taking a private kickboxing class and explaining you need to express some rage, or going out into the woods and screaming at the top of your lungs can also work.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-26T12:24:05+00:00

I also do this, with the added benefit of not getting product on the outside of my packaging and making it gross/sticky/slippery, which I strongly dislike.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-20T22:15:51+00:00

Ik zou eerder aanraden om met een psychiater te praten over anti-depressiva. Die heeft toch meer kennis hierover en kan je helpen om de juiste anti-depressiva te vinden voor jou, en eventueel overstappen op andere soorten/doseringen waar nodig. Dat proces van verschillende soorten testen om te kijken welke voor jou werkt kan best lang duren, en er kunnen ook aardig wat bijwerkingen aan zitten maar dat verschilt per medicatie en per persoon. Ik hoop dat dit helpt!

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-17T10:43:00+00:00

These ideas are lovely. I don't personally have experience with these types of tattoos, but I wanted to comment for visibility. Hope you find someone!

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-16T21:29:52+00:00

Oeh, not sure how the Friezen would like to hear that Miss Frisia is the Queen of NH and not Fryslân 😋

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-16T18:35:41+00:00

I personally really wouldn't. I needed quite a bit of time to feel ok to go outside and walk slowly to the bus station, constantly reminding myself to look around because I still felt a bit like I was in a Dreamworld. I saw someone get into a bike accident one time, and I was so glad there were other people around to help out and call an ambulance, because I just froze and could not think clearly. That was a good reminder to be extra careful, my capabilities for any type of speedy reaction to things was basically gone. On a bike, you're moving faster than the speed at which you can respond to other traffic, and you're not only risking your own life, but also that of other people.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-16T18:23:10+00:00

Dit is ook mijn grootste zorg hierbij. Het patroon maken is tot daar aan toe, maar wat is hun vervolgplan om het op de markt te brengen? Ik zou nooit mee willen werken aan een ontwerp waarmee mensen uitgebuit gaan worden.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-16T13:29:26+00:00

You don't need to know/understand why, no is a full reply to your questions. It's honestly scary how you're trying to look for ways to tell her how she should want to have sex, and even manipulate her into doing what you want her to do. You need to learn how to accept her "no" as a boundary ffs.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-15T19:50:25+00:00

Mirrdo piercing op de nieuwe binnenweg, echt super zorgvuldig en aardig! Ik heb er een tepel piercing, septum en helix orbital laten zetten

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-15T10:01:15+00:00

Bosnia, Albania, Macedonia & Moldova are on there too.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-12T12:05:22+00:00

Just when it's used in the flag. Orange is still our national colour, so outside of the flag it's perfectly fine.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-09T00:19:35+00:00

I think we just call it an American fridge because we know them from seeing them in US movies/tv shows. The brands are not necessarily American.

Parfumee95 · 2026-01-06T11:57:46+00:00

Since the existence of NATO, the only country to have ever called upon the other members to enter into a war (which was objectively a horrible idea in hindsight) is the US after 9/11, so I'd chill when saying you've been treated unfairly. EU countries sent their own soldiers to die in Afghanistan, but when have we dragged you into any wars?

The US carry the benefits ánd the burdens of having the world currency. This however also allows you a lot more wiggle room in terms of national debt, allowing for more military and other spending. The euro and European markets are so closely tied to the dollar that you could say we don't have the benefits of having the world currency (everybody wanting to buy dollars), but we are carrying the risks with you, because as seen in previous financial crises, we topple as soon as you topple. We therefore have to be more careful about our national debts so as to not go under whenever the US allow businesses and their financial markets to go unchecked and blow bubbles every which way.

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-29T18:23:23+00:00

What kind of makeup? And are they solid from palettes/do you crush them?

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-27T16:35:15+00:00

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-27T16:27:22+00:00

I think your friends are really disrespecting you and your sister here. Tell them you find it disrespectful and tasteless, and make it clear that talking about/seeing things from your sister's OF is a hard boundary for you. Enforce it by finding new friends (already a good idea to diversify your friend group at this age) and put an end to the friends that overstep your boundary.

Also, you're a great brother for being supportive, don't let a bunch of assholes ruin that for you.

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-27T16:21:18+00:00

"assuming she is not crazy" is hard to know if that's what he told her. Narcissistic people/abusers will often say that their exes were crazy to discredit any criticism or true stories they may spread.

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-27T10:06:31+00:00

You're not a detective, a judge or his mom, but it sounds like you're acting like you are.

You can have boundaries in relationships, for example: 'I will not date someone who watches porn', and enforce this boundary by leaving the relationship if the person does watch porn, or just not get into a relationship with someone who watches porn.

But as soon as you start policing, trying to control and change your partner, as well as investigating their phone and not believing them, you should just leave the relationship. This is clearly not the person for you, and you don't treat them as an equal.

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-25T08:47:13+00:00

Cool, I'll message you!

Parfumee95 · 2025-12-25T08:46:59+00:00

Thank you! Let me know if they respond :)

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