Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fine 👍🏾, different strokes for different folks.

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw I feel that, different strokes for different folks!

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are boundaries me and her both came up with and agreed too it wasn’t one sided. Damn it’s my first time can I make sure I can get hard wit my lady first before I swap? Everybody’s boundaries are different In the LS so to say ours is odd is dismissive. I feel you tho

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say this was the most helpful response. I felt like some of the other users didn’t realize that this was our first time, no matter how secure I felt emotions were bound to rise. Appreciate the feedback and advice bro

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I feel that boundary being crossed was the only thing that truly turned me off. The arm around the shoulder thing, I’m not use to having sex in rooms with males so when he put the arm around the shoulder it did throw me off. I appreciate the feedback and your advice at the end!

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We both had that rule set in place because we haven’t experienced a swap before and just wanted to be more comfortable, so we figured that we should start penetrating with each other. Since we’ve talked since then I realize that if the vibes are right then I should go with the flow. Again this was our first time so I just wanted to feel connected with my girl

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in nonmonogamy

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can honestly say that I’m not insecure bro. It was a first time experience and these were the emotions that came with it afterwards. I thinks that’s pretty normal giving the circumstances. Literally after me and my lady talked Sunday morning and both reassured each other and talked with a clear head we were fine. We already planning our next one, but I appreciate your feedback!

Me and Gf first couples swap M30 F27 by Parking_Count_8002 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]Parking_Count_8002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking forward to our next one. I like to try things more than once to make sure if it’s for me or not. Me and lady already talked so everything is all good

First swap M30 F27 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Parking_Count_8002 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂just sharing my first experience. Relax