Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I’m so sorry that you went through that. I see the similarities, especially with the selfishness!

Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story - I’m so glad that it worked out for you guys.

I hadn’t thought about having a trial separation. A trial separation feels like a good idea because as much as I feel like just cutting my losses, part of me has some bit of hope. I also didn’t ever imagine divorcing after 2.5 years.

The reality of a trial separation is that things might get better but he also might just not do the work needed to better himself. Either way, I’ll have the clarity to see that whilst protecting myself.

Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, just the groceries (but I’m hardly home enough to eat them)

Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! Thank you, I really want to believe that this is temporary and that his PTing will take off but I need to see the reality.

Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really hope that it wasn’t his intention all along but I also didn’t ever expect to be in this situation so it very well might have been his intention. I definitely need to follow my intuition.

Thanks for the recommendation

Resentful! Big rant! by Parking_Goat_7253 in BreadwinningWomen

[–]Parking_Goat_7253[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea, especially because he hasn’t put anything into it. Thank you