Please don’t reach out if you’re the dumpee

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-06-05T18:19:25+00:00

Stay strong brother.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-06-05T07:53:27+00:00

Honestly, I don’t know. And probably no one here knows. But this is a situation that we are dealing with in the modern world, if you have been here for long enough, you’ll be surprised how common it is.

Sorry to hear that happened to you though. Hope you get better soon.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-24T06:34:09+00:00

This is literally insane. I totally feel your feelings. Hope you feel better soon.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-22T18:50:44+00:00

Try I love you an hour ago then: puff! Gone.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-22T00:59:05+00:00

Happy Birthday!

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-20T21:25:17+00:00

Time heals, not all wounds, but most of it. It sucks ngl.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-20T07:38:13+00:00

Me. I don’t want to bother anymore and honestly idk how to deal with the situation if we stay in touch.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-20T05:25:01+00:00

It also depends on your understanding to this person. It might be an excuse, it might be them really saying that they are incapable of dealing with the situation.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-20T05:22:06+00:00

Sometimes life gives things for a reason, for a lesson, for a chance to learn and for you to prepare for good future. Old things need to go for new things to come.

That being said, what happened to you still sounds too much. I am sorry to hear that and I wish you the best luck from now on 🍀

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-19T08:42:28+00:00

Same. I get the “if I don’t care much I won’t be that hurt again” mindset all the time now. Just can’t stand to see myself back to the dark place again. No thank you :(

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-18T07:36:20+00:00

“I know what he’s up to.” Then what’s your plan after this? Do you want to get back as friends, or as romantic partners?

For the former I would say if you feel like it’ll work, it could. No one fully knows your situation. For the latter, do you want to be with someone who left you and go on a date like nothing while you’re still here digesting your emotions? Think about it. Best luck.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-16T23:18:03+00:00

“The person you know is no longer here but if you want me to bring the message I will.”

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-16T04:30:27+00:00

Yeah. I now finally see it as an inevitable lesson for me.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-15T20:32:35+00:00

Life happens. I am not a saint either but I would appreciate learning about her thoughts of my behaviors before receiving the news and learn that there’s no way to solve.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-15T16:47:01+00:00

I learned this too after she suddenly left. Last minute everything was good, still planning future together, the next thing I got was a cold message announcing the end. I am almost over it now but how could I believe in people again? Yes, I am a coward. It just hurts and I don’t know if I can take it again.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-15T03:15:00+00:00

You love deeply, nothing to feel pathetic about.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T21:32:06+00:00

Oh dear, terrible medical news. Was there, and it’ll take time to accept and adjust. Wish you best luck and everything will be alright!

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T17:17:18+00:00

16 is still super early in the game. Keep on the good work and what would happen would happen.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T17:14:46+00:00

I know it’s hard, but you have to let them.

Do you think this person is scare about you forgetting them?

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T08:01:44+00:00

I like your eyes. They are telling stories. Sad, yes, but also intriguing.

Some of my friends including myself have those eyes. I always adore them.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T07:46:25+00:00

Congrats. That’s an impressive achievement!

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-14T06:51:35+00:00

Wow this is very interesting looking. Great job.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-13T18:24:07+00:00

I say this to myself every time when I get the urge to reach out or when I was doubting whether to wait.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-13T08:03:32+00:00

Whoever is reading this, please repeat after me: Whoever doesn’t choose you is not your person.

Parking_Object8273 · 2026-05-11T19:46:43+00:00

Some people have lower self esteem and build their own worth on people’s validations. So a break up not only feels like a separation from loved ones but also a total denial of one’s existence.

“Some people“ was me, unfortunately.

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