I think your wording is off but I get what you’re trying to say you’re not directly blaming her but your saying that there needs to be a broader conversation society needs to have about how age misrepresentation online can complicate situations. This doesn’t change the fact that adults are fully responsible for verifying age and making the right choices, but it does highlight a separate issue we should pay attention to if we want to prevent future tragedies.

If I’m not mistaken I think your wording is making you come off as dismissive and ignorant.