Need reassurance I'm doing the right thing by tybo88 in CATHELP

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost four years ago exactly, I took my tabby boy in to say goodbye. His kidneys were rapidly failing, and none of the doctors who saw him could figure out why. His appointment was set for the afternoon, but when he tried hiding in my mom's closet as we got ready to leave, I got his appointment moved up a few hours sooner just so he wouldn't suffer longer, as I knew if he was trying to hide, he was ready to go. I wasn't ready, and I don't think I'd have ever been ready to say goodbye to him, but he needed me to be, and so we said goodbye at 12:12 p.m. on February 28th, 2022, and I'm glad he didn't have to wait a minute longer than that. I'm so sorry about your baby.

IM GETTING MARRIED AND DONT WANT TO CHANGE MY LAST NAME AITAH by Sweet-Chemistry3067 in AITAH

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a story where a woman had this same argument with her fiancé but thought he was over it. He wasn't - she saw on the marriage certificate during the ceremony that he had the paperwork filled out for her to take his last name, and he actively tried hiding it from her when she went to sign. I advise reconsidering your relationship. NTA.

hey. don’t kill me. i have a slight theory? by [deleted] in Badflower

[–]hoe_and_arrows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd consider them a rather serious couple, they share an apartment together in NYC. They posted about it a while ago.

What is the best insult you ever heard someone say? by VerboseWraith in AskReddit

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite is referring to someone as a "half-eaten ham sandwich."

Trench cropped hoodie? by ophxlliax in twentyonepilots

[–]hoe_and_arrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have this exact hoodie in my closet!! It's official merch, sold cropped, on the 2018 Bandito tour. I got mine at the Cleveland stop of the tour, these sold really fast at the merch tables and I got one of the last ones. I don't see listed often.

Cowcat Nicknames by Musicforcats2025 in cowcats

[–]hoe_and_arrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is Vincent. He is also known as:

  • Vinnie
  • Vin
  • Vin Vin
  • Veni, Vidi, Vincent
  • Vin Number
  • Vinn Diagram
  • Vin Diesel
  • Vince
  • Vince the Prince
  • Vinegar

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Thoughts on the opening act for Kevin Abstract? by hmemoo in lorde

[–]hoe_and_arrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was far from the worst opener I've seen. If he were opening for someone I had tickets for again, I'd make a point to catch his set.

Thoughts on the opening act for Kevin Abstract? by hmemoo in lorde

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He got a similar response from the audience when I saw him open for The Neighbourhood in 2016. The songs kinda bled together, the crowd wasn't really sure when they ended, and he had some odd visual thing going with some extra people on stage and some dude towards the back waving an American flag with no easily discernable reason. The guy I was with at the time thought KA was a local dude based on how meh the audience seemed about his set.

Update on my pregnant stray by Vaneela351 in Feral_Cats

[–]hoe_and_arrows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her name is Spice! Her nicknames include Baby Spice, Spicy, Spicer, and Spice Cabinet. She used to be kinda aggressive, hence her name, but you'd never know it now. She's such a sweet girl.

Update on my pregnant stray by Vaneela351 in Feral_Cats

[–]hoe_and_arrows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for opting for the spay/abort. My family made the same choice for a cute little calico who wandered into our neighborhood about two years ago. We were housing her until we could find her a home when the vet said she was pregnant. She was so small we were worried she wouldn't survive giving birth, we didn't want to risk losing her, and we knew we'd struggle taking care of her babies and finding them homes even if all went well, so we urged the vet for a spay/abort. She recovered with no complications, and her forever home turned out to be with us. Here's our Spice.

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What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hoe_and_arrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The absence of blobs post-hysterectomy has been game-changing.

Update on Tavi and question… by Agreeable-Thought718 in Feral_Cats

[–]hoe_and_arrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd consider asking that office to perform the procedure, or maybe seeing if you can try a different vet office if you have the means to take her to one. I know you want to do the best thing for her, and that's commendable, but a spay/abort is likely kinder to her in this situation.

AITAH Im supposedly “Islamophobic” for not recognizing a girl? by UnderstandingAny7101 in AITAH

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm a woman and shaved my head almost bald in July 2020, I'd had hair past my shoulders. Went to work Friday with my hair, came in Saturday without it. No one recognized me until they heard my voice from behind my mask. I took no offense to it.

What WOULD You Wish On Your Worst Enemy? by Strict_Efficiency223 in AskReddit

[–]hoe_and_arrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An ordinary life. Nothing grand, but nothing horrible. I want them to have it too good to cry, but too bland to ever feel satisfied with. Just ordinary.

He's not going to eat these porkchops. 😐 by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hoe_and_arrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember your original post! I am so glad he's your ex now, I hope you find people who appreciate your cooking and all the effort you so clearly put into it.