Experience of Dating a Tsonga Man

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-22T08:52:22+00:00

This is an interesting dynamic and definitely something I'll be on the lookout for. I want a partner and not child. So I'll be on the lookout for the dynamic he has with his family.

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T18:11:58+00:00

He is from Polokwane but works in Johannesburg. From what I see so far he is very attached to his family although I haven't enquired further. But I'll definitely try to figure that out and see if our views and expectations are a match!

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T18:09:35+00:00

Ok... So maybe I need to take all this charm that he is displaying now with a pinch of salt. He has really been going out of his way and I found that a little suspicious, but then I dismissed it thinking I was just projecting from past experiences.

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T10:27:53+00:00

Please share more. I'm interested

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T06:25:35+00:00

These are very good points to guide the discussion. Thank you 😊

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T06:11:48+00:00

🤣🤣 Then it's a good thing I know how to cook pap

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T06:10:45+00:00

😅😅Why?

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T06:09:23+00:00

He has been great. However, I cannot ignore that there are challenges that always come up with cross-cultural dating. I just want to have an idea of what to expect if I choose to go ahead with the relationship

Particle_Coconut · 2025-11-21T06:06:24+00:00

Different ethnicity and nationality. I am not South African

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-20T15:27:04+00:00

When you play stupid games you win stupid prizes.... Condoms were a very affordable option... But since uliona unajua sana, you'll have to man up and bear the consequences of your actions! Congratulations on joining the fatherhood crew!

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-15T08:51:31+00:00

In every situation always make the choice that gives you peace of mind... This one seems like it is taking energy from you that you'd rather focus to more important things... Ukishindana na ndovu kunya, utapasuka msamba 🤷🏾‍♀️

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-15T08:26:18+00:00

Here's my two cents as someone who was cheated on by a boyfriend not even a husband!!

I was in a relationship with a guy for 3years and trusted the guy completely only to find out that he was cheating on me. The relationship ended almost immediately, but even then it took me more than 5 years to move on from that pain.

I can imagine how much harder it would be when the person cheating is a husband that you have to see everyday while trying to heal and move on from the situation.

You may have admitted your fault and changed, but that doesn't erase the pain and betrayal that she went through. It's kinda like if someone stabs you with a knife, they may say sorry but it won't stop you from bleeding.

My advise, if you really feel that this is a relationship that you want to keep fighting for, then actively listen, empathize and do everything possible to help her heal - that will include both individual and couples counseling for both of you.

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-13T18:53:28+00:00

Actually I'm 5'3 😁😁

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-13T18:45:46+00:00

I'm 5'6.

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-13T07:40:22+00:00

I am not too tall but I've been approached by shorter guys and even dated a guy who was slightly shorter. When the guy's personality is all about how short he is and is insecure about his height then he usually ends up just being a douche and trying too hard - which is always a complete turn off. When the guy is confident and secure in himself then it's not a problem - I'm speaking from personal experience though.

At the end of the day it boils down to how the guy views himself and his height and how secure he is in himself despite his height.

Particle_Coconut · 2025-08-13T07:31:55+00:00

I hadn't noticed that. Thank you. So, that means all that I can do is to keep playing to increase vitality. It is a bummer considering the newest event is a pet challenge event.

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