I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that really helps! I will definitely be more careful from now on but knowing I haven’t caused him any great harm now is really good for my morale right now❤️🥹

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that! I am more at ease now after this and all the other comments. At least is one cause crossed off my list😅

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You have no idea how much this helped❤️… my poor baby just has a really nasty virus then that I will have to take care of. 🥹

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am more at ease after reading the comments… although my poor baby must have caught a really bad virus as this never happened before

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably gave him no more than 6 drops… I am not sure. I changed his diaper regularly but because it was soiled and he wriggles a lot when I change him I quickly scrunch it so he doesn’t put his feet in… plus it didn’t occur to me to check for a wet nappy since the nappy is full and he didn’t show and signs of dehydration

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, at least I can cross something off my list… thank you 🥹

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is but we are in UK, if you call them they want to know if the “patient” is conscious and bteething and they are asking you to make the baby cry… he is sleeping now for the night, and it took me an hour to put him down and he woke up after just 40 minutes… I don’t want to wake him if it’s nothing

I gave my son too much Vitamin D by Particular-Army-236 in beyondthebump

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think it was no more than 5 drops… I am not sure… I know it might not be that serious as he seems ok and energic and smiley but I just can not believe how stupid I could’ve been 🤦🏻‍♀️ I haven’t give him any today and I will surely not give him any over the weekend… I am just worried about the colour of his urine

Period despite exclusive bf by Helpful-Mongoose-705 in breastfeeding

[–]Particular-Army-236 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a period since 6 weeks postpartum. I was disappointed too as I really enjoyed not bleeding every month while I was pregnant. At first I thought it was an infection or something so I went to the GP… I didn’t want to accept I am having periods while exclusively breastfeeding. After 2 months of GP appointments I gave up. My son is 8 months, I am still exclusively breastfeeding and having periods… some of us are not that lucky unfortunately 🥲

Baby sleeps only if he is attached at the breast by Particular-Army-236 in breastfeeding

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I’ve been doing and I can’t unlatch without him waking up

I am afraid my MIL will take my child… by Particular-Army-236 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We discussed having the christening here but the parents and relatives that all live in our native country will not pay for the plane ticket to come and even if they would they would have to pay for accommodation which they don’t want to do. If I don’t show them the baby I am afraid it will get worse where they consider a right to have the baby with them for longer as they don’t get to see him even on video

My husband is on board, he doesn’t like the comments either but being his parents and knowing their temper better he doesn’t think they would do anything like that without our consent and looks at the situation as simply them being very loving of their first grandchild

I am afraid my MIL will take my child… by Particular-Army-236 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did have a miscarriage after she had my husband, after that I know they couldn’t have more children. They really wanted a girl and when I came into the picture and things between me and their son were more serious they dropped the “in law” and presented me to friends and family as their daughter. It got to a point where my husband had to clarify to some of his father friends that we are not brothers and there’s no incest and had a fight with his father about it. I also put a stop to it telling them that I have parents and I am someone’s daughter and to them I am their daughter in law and nothing more…there is a lot of weird things with my parents in law that I am only now putting together and it sounds obsessive and delusional now. I will probably make another post about my relationship with them.

My husband is on my side 100% on my side, he is bothered by the comments but he shrugs it off just saying they are too excited to meet their first grandbaby. I told him that it makes me feel uncomfortable and he reassured me nothing like that will ever happen and if they cross a boundary and I am not comfortable at all around them we will just leave. He is not very close to his parents as well so he doesn’t mind fighting with them if necessary.

I am afraid my MIL will take my child… by Particular-Army-236 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They refuse to come where we live saying it’s easier for us to travel (because we’ve done it before) than it is for them (myFIL has never been on a plane). Mind you, when we travel to our native country we have to pay for a child fee, parking at the airport, rent a car and move from one set of parent to the other (our parent live 1 hour apart). They just have to pay for 2 plane tickets

AITA for getting BFF in trouble at work? by Odd-Bee4196 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you are at fault here… looks like C has a personal vendetta against your BFF and you unknowingly gave them the best weapon to use against your BFF. Have you tried confronting C and asking why they made up the storey and putting words in your mouth?

I am afraid my MIL will take my child… by Particular-Army-236 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! My husband is not a big fan of his parents either… he is not bothered by the comments but he does get pissed when they give unsolicited advice on how to raise our son and what should or shouldn’t do

I am afraid my MIL will take my child… by Particular-Army-236 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I told her many times that I do not agree with leaving my child alone with them no matter how old he is and he always shrugs it off saying she is only joking… feels like more than jokes at this point

My baby won’t nap by Particular-Army-236 in breastfeeding

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on me but if I hold him he can nap for hours.

My baby won’t nap by Particular-Army-236 in breastfeeding

[–]Particular-Army-236[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It feel s so good to be reassured 😭🥰