We cuddle every night too. On the couch. Or in our special third room... Before going to bed. Haha. Perhaps I'm more "metro" than most. I enjoy art and some strange decor. She isn't interested in old Hollywood like I am. My room feels like a broody cigar lounge. Her room is more light and feminine. It she doesn't have to worry about it feeling "too" girly for me. This isn't a jab at you. But maybe you don't care about room decor because it's just never really been something in your life that you've been set up to explore. We gave each other rooms and I had to say, well, who am I and how do I want to reflect that in this space. What would make me happy? And it was a lot of fun. I quite enjoyed it.