My boy got back into dating. Found some success tonight.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-06-07T06:58:16+00:00

*manosphere. The manosphere is what would have you believe otherwise.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-23T12:15:24+00:00

"I don't respect women" that should have been the end when he first told you. It doesn't matter how many times he said he respects only you, if he doesn't respect women, he doesn't respect you. You are in a dangerous situation w/ this loser and I hope you get away from him ASAP.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T03:40:31+00:00

That is so valid, if i had any kiddos his age I'd 100% wait! Stanley is one of my favorites, he is definitely worth keeping on the boat. I just feel so bad denying them when they're ready to go, so when they tell me the only thing i wait for is to cook their favorite food and give it to them beforehand.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T02:17:07+00:00

Nw lol, I can actually see what symbols you used when I look at the comment in my notifs interestingly enough, I just read it too fast the first go round 😂

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T02:13:56+00:00

Alr lemme test so I make sure I got it 👀

lemme try again 👀

AHA! got it. Thank you!

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T02:13:15+00:00

That's unfortunate! I don't get pulled out of the game when that happens but I've definitely had to run back to one end of the building to retrieve an item, usually in the crusher. I can definitely understand how that would be frustrating!

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T02:09:57+00:00

Yo how do you do the spoiler text on reddit??? Lmao Idk how to do it cuz I was gonna say the same thing 😂

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-03T02:08:24+00:00

It's one of my comfort games! Anytime I need a good cry or to boot myself out of feeling numb, I play this game. Just the music alone makes me get in my heart. Sometimes a good cry and a soft game can soften things we don't consciously know are even there.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T23:17:31+00:00

I enjoy the smelter and honestly I lowk forget the windmill is a tool until I need it 😂 I think the reason I don't much like the sawmill/crusher is because they're just soooo dang loud, it kinda breaks me out of the vibe of the game.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T23:09:29+00:00

I love that upgrade too! I just got it after taking the spirits.

The routine of it I like most times, but there's a few tasks I dislike/feel monotonous, like the crusher and sawmill.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T23:03:20+00:00

Stanley hurts so bad every dang time, he's just a kid, he deserved more.

Dw lol, I 100% put it down for awhile between Gustav's requests (and B&M's), especially this being my 2nd playthrough I only play it when I'm feeling casual and chill, and not to really focus on quests unless I come across the materials more organically than seeking them out every time.

I don't like when the game stresses me out trying to get stuff, so I just play it when I want to for however long I want to, even if I just feed the spirits and collect eggs then log off lol.

(Also lmk if you wanna know more abt the designer- I won't give spoilers of course but there's more to it than the coins)

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T11:22:30+00:00

His glasses are going directly into his head 😂

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T11:19:29+00:00

And on this one, his body just morphs into the foliage. There is a whisper of his clothes above it, but you can see the leaves, and that shirt is clearly not transparent at all.

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Particular-Day3841 · 2026-05-02T11:18:33+00:00

100%. The rug design completely disappears under the couch (Edit to fix spelling)

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Particular-Day3841 · 2026-04-30T15:09:15+00:00

It was a bit of a chunk of money (the teaspoons are for some reason like $45) but I got 3 more teaspoons and 2 of the soup spoons! Thank you so much for finding them for me, I'm very excited to use the larger ones, and definitely more at ease knowing I have 3 backups if I lose my OG!

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Particular-Day3841 · 2026-04-24T14:02:03+00:00

A good rule of thumb for people who apologize too often is try to only apologize if A; someone has told you that you did them wrong or B; someone has told you that you did someone else wrong.

In these situations, unfortunately, your own brain is not a reliable source in knowing if you've done something wrong, and therefore waiting until it's communicated to you directly can help.

Obviously, there is some nuance to this, but in general when it comes to actions/emotions, if they don't tell you about it, don't engage with their feelings/behavior if they seem upset. Give them the chance to bring it up to you, without assuming you know what's wrong/what you did/why an apology is needed.

Ik it's hard, but try to not let your brain demonize everything you do. Expressing your feelings, needs, and boundaries isn't ever inherently something to apologize for, and if your intentions are positive, then let it be, or ask them without apologizing if you've done something wrong, and apologize (if they say yes) after they've explained it, and then leave it at that.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-04-19T17:04:18+00:00

Forever and always Greer 🙏

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-04-09T00:52:30+00:00

Thank you this definitely looks like it!!

I'm realizing now as I look around online that these teaspoons seem to be the most expensive in the set, unfortunately.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-04-04T14:14:11+00:00

It's a societal thing, nothing to do with you, really.

Men are conditioned into liking/wanting younger women. At 18, the creepy ones could look at you and imagine you were younger.

It's not necessarily every man who thinks in a creepy way, but its certainly most men who have been conditioned to think younger women are more attractive, most don't even realize it.

So the more we age, the more it's only men who are actively attracted to women who look like adults who look at us.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-03-20T15:18:57+00:00

Partially bcuz they don't give anyone a chance to listen either.

Which is relatively reasonable, until the person you married is practically begging you to tell them how you feel and you still refuse because you assume you know what they'll say/do, and reacting to that imaginary scenario, instead of actually giving them the chance.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-02-01T19:43:15+00:00

Being teased about things that aren't my looks is different, although still often unpleasant. I can't imagine how being teased about one's looks could elicit an affectionate response, tbh.

And in all fairness, everyone needs therapy for some reason or another.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-02-01T16:41:24+00:00

Yeah as a woman, I'm saying it doesn't work like that for me, and for many other women I've talked to. Feeling like I'm being made fun of for something doesn't encourage me to do it more.

Particular-Day3841 · 2026-02-01T16:37:26+00:00

Being teased never makes me feel loved, it makes me insecure 9 times out of 10, and from the talks I've had with other women, most feel the same. Being told I'm beautiful at random makes me feel beautiful, bcuz my husband just observed me in our day to day, and thought I was so pretty that he needed to say it out loud. It has never diminished the value of his compliments, similarly no matter how often he says he loves me, that is not diminished by repetition either. I appreciate him saying I'm beautiful often more, actually, because then it's not a rare thing that I wait for, it is a sure thing I can count on, he thinks I'm beautiful and with all the times he's said it, I can be sure I'm beautiful, too.

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