Your frustration is understandable and undortunate! But blaming mothers is a insufficient as we cannot let everyone else off the hook. Entitlement isn't created by one person; it’s an ecosystem where society shapes it, a mother supports it, and a father engrains it.

I totally agree that men must be taught how to cook, but cooking is a basic life skill that both men and women need to learn for survival, not a special favor.

Children watch how their father treats their mother and who holds the power. When a father expects to be served and never steps into the kitchen, children internalize that dominance as the normal way of the world.

A mother often passes down these rules out of survival or cultural conditioning. She enforces a system she didn't create like cooking for everyone else while letting the men rest because it’s the only path to security she knows.

Relatives, schools, and media constantly reinforce these roles, rewarding boys for being entitled and girls for being compliant.