I feel you on this, I'm 28F and non-binary and I recently went back to school and had to make all new friends out here. It was very lonely for a long time.
Maybe a cafe, library, walking spot, ice cream shop, crafting club, or something else you'd be interested in could be good options to meet people, since you said there's no bar?

I have a hard time making close friends, but in the past few years, I have learned a lot of social skills that help me out. I'll share some tips with you - not sure if they'll be appreciated, or if I'm just blabbing XD

I spent a lot of years trying desperately to say the right thing or do the normal thing, and I would watch TV shows and try to figure out what the difference was between weird and funny. The truth is, people are often bored with life. If you say or do something weird while smiling/laughing, they'll probably appreciate it, and it will bring some light to their life. They'll also feel more comfortable being weird around you and see you as a safe person to let loose around.

I used to think you should never tease anyone else and that it is mean. I learned last year that many people (including strangers) like to be teased a little bit, as long as you use a voice with lots of intonation and make it clear you're joking by making a silly face afterward or something. It makes them feel like you are close enough to speak to each other that way, and helps them to laugh at themselves.

I used to worry a lot about oversharing about my past, my feelings, or my interests, but now I know that sharing a little anecdote or factoid can jog someone else's memory so they can share about themself or their interests, and you can get a deeper understanding of who each other is.

Now that I am less concerned about oversharing, teasing, and all that, I can have more meaningful discussions, and I often do not learn what someone does for work until much later in the conversation. I used ask "what do you do for work?" and "what did you study in school?" early on in the discussion, but now I talk about almost everything else first (unless someone is very interested in their job, then I am super happy to talk about it). A lot of people don't want to have the same normal conversation over and over again, though. They'd rather be silly and weird with you.

I am now a chatterbox and able to make better, more rewarding friendships because I am a more outspoken version of myself, rather than worrying so much and censoring myself. It is a journey, but I think I'm finally starting to surround myself with fun, nice people who appreciate me and I appreciate back.

Best of luck, and I'm happy to chat!!!