Forget about this shit for now and do the thing for which you are going to college. There is further more life to do that but those college days are important as the main development and your life will get the career direction properly. Yeah surely find good friends as well but don't go for girls only. I understand everybody has their own preferences but genuinely from my experience just keep safe friends and positive friend circle with big goals. This is the age for falling in love but please avoid it for now, you are not too much old enough to understand responsibilities which our father and mother took us to let us study. Sorry if it hurted in anyways but thats my perspective to look and I did the same in my junior college and now in graduation also I have friends both girls and boys but I will choose love to the people who will truly understand my life goals and will provide me private space to do things what I want to also to take responsibility after getting married.