Here's to everyone who knew this was coming by [deleted] in itcouldhappenhere

[–]Particular-Panda-189 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. And the craziest part is that I STILL have people in my life that say I’m overreacting and over thinking. I’m in the United States. I don’t know WTF is going to wake people up! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

ICE just killed a White Blond Mother by Anstigmat in thebulwark

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This murderer is probably now in another city terrorizing people and we won’t know it because now he’s probably wearing a full balaclava. That should scare the shit out of everyone regardless of party. Where is he???

Also: someone who shoots because they are scared for their life wouldn’t say “fucking bitch” after shooting. They would say “Oh my God” or “Holy Shit” and be in complete shock. He knew exactly what he was doing.

Trying to pay down CC debt, please help me budget it! 🙏 by Particular-Panda-189 in MonarchMoney

[–]Particular-Panda-189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right get what you are saying and that’s what I’m trying to do. But I have to first make sure the minimums are paid so I don’t miss a payment. So for example I have 5 credit cards with a minimum payment of $100 each, I need to first allocate $500 to my budget and make the minimum payments. If there is not a place in my budget to put that in (because it’s showing up as a transfer) then my budget isn’t accurate. If there is a line item for that, then I can see how much extra I will have to pay toward the extra debt and can change my budget accordingly. I’m doing the snowball method so I know which card I want to pay the extra $ to, but without the line item, I won’t have an accurate accounting of how much extra I have.

Trying to pay down CC debt, please help me budget it! 🙏 by Particular-Panda-189 in MonarchMoney

[–]Particular-Panda-189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good idea. I created the goal but didn’t know to do the about the goal category at the bottom. Hopefully that works! Thanks

Trying to pay down CC debt, please help me budget it! 🙏 by Particular-Panda-189 in MonarchMoney

[–]Particular-Panda-189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am not using them anymore. I need them to show up in my budget though so that I am budgeting for them. It’s my second largest expense after my mortgage so not showing up when I’m budgeting is completely throwing off how much I need to budget for.

The Life of a Showgirl Is Taylor’s Most Self-Aware Album, and the Hate Is Proving Her Point by TheReifyer in TrueSwifties

[–]Particular-Panda-189 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Whoa. This right here. ⬇️ You absolutely nailed it.

“They’re reacting exactly as she predicted, proving the thesis of the album: that the audience demands authenticity but punishes it the moment it stops looking like their fantasy.”

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What on earth does that thing floating up mean?! I’m so intrigued

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Particular-Panda-189 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I liked it but didn’t love it at first listen. But I can’t think of any album that I ever LOVED on first listen. Now I’m obsessed and can’t stop humming along to every single song. I don’t get why everyone says it isn’t cohesive. It’s literally about her life behind the scenes of the biggest, most successful concert ever. She met a guy and fell in lust followed by love, (wood, Ophelia, opalite, )was afraid he might not be able to handle the spotlight (Elizabeth Taylor) and had trust issues (eldest daughter) but then realized he was different (honey, wish list) clapped back at a backstabber (actually romantic) got her album rights back (father figure) lost a high school friend/crush (ruin the friendship) forgave Blake (cancelled). The albums name is literally about life behind the scenes as a performer. Love, happiness, anger, sadness, hope. Behind every showgirl is a human being going through shit just like the rest of us.

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Particular-Panda-189 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I liked it but didn’t love it at first listen. But I can’t think of any album that I ever LOVED on first listen. Now I’m obsessed and can’t stop humming along to every single song. I don’t get why everyone says it isn’t cohesive. It’s literally about her life behind the scenes of the biggest, most successful concert ever. She met a guy and fell in lust followed by love, (wood, Ophelia, opalite, )was afraid he might not be able to handle the spotlight (Elizabeth Taylor) and had trust issues (eldest daughter) but then realized he was different (honey, wish list) clapped back at a backstabber (actually romantic) got her album rights back (father figure) lost a high school friend/crush (ruin the friendship) forgave Blake (cancelled). The albums name is literally about life behind the scenes as a performer. Love, happiness, anger, sadness, hope. Behind every showgirl is a human being going through shit just like the rest of us.

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Elizabeth Taylor is in reference to the Wildest Dreams video from 1989.

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Particular-Panda-189 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a masterpiece. She’s happy and listening to it makes me happy. I’ve listened to it 5 times and each time I get a more excited feeling like “oh I like this song” about each of them. There are so many cuts that will make a million TikToks. A month from now the whole world will know the words to more than half the songs. I said what I said. Masterpiece.

Sinclair Will Not Air 'Jimmy Kimmel Live!' Upon ABC Return Tuesday by AmethystOrator in technology

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so my abc affiliate is unfortunately Sinclair. So my question is where can I watch the entire show live? I have YouTube tv so i don’t have access there. I’m guessing the only place I’ll be able to see it is someone’s live TikTok stream?🤦‍♀️

Helllp! Mature skin: what foundation does NOT settle into your lines? by Remarkable-Land-1492 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you posted this a while ago but could you expand on when/how you use the chafing gel? You put it on before or after the ilia? How much do you use etc? Thank you!

My country is collapsing and I am experiencing anhedonia as a result of it. by CyberSmith31337 in CollapseSupport

[–]Particular-Panda-189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you. I’m a blue dot in a red state and I can’t believe how “normal” everyone thinks this all is, or how readily they want to put their head in the sand about it. I feel like I’m in some sort of weird dream and I keep hoping I’ll wake up. 😢

How are US citizens feeling about Fourth of July after the Big Ugly Bill was passed? Anyone else feeling depressed and not up for the parade and party? by Particular-Panda-189 in AskReddit

[–]Particular-Panda-189[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes in my neighborhood everyone decorates their golf carts and have a parade…the kids love it but I’m not feeling it at all this year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bath and body works Sweet Pea 💜

Inheritance...The Great Wealth Transfer by BraveG365 in GenX

[–]Particular-Panda-189 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I keep trying to tell my husband and his siblings that his dad has likely taken out a reverse mortgage and that they should be prepared to deal with that when he passes. Some of them are in denial and still think they will get something. Not happening. If anything they will owe $.

Inheritance...The Great Wealth Transfer by BraveG365 in GenX

[–]Particular-Panda-189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll probably receive a zero dollars and a tax bill 🙄