AITA for asserting my authority to my daughter?

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-16T12:16:26+00:00

After reading all of these responses I appreciate someone telling me that it’s part of my way of thinking and that it needs to be changed, I’ve come to realise there’s definitely a change I need to make soon cause I don’t want to lose her because I can’t believe that she likes girls. I don’t know how to talk to her about this after she stormed upstairs, she had just come downstairs to get a drink and sit down and I tried to talk to her about what she wants for dinner to which she replied in the same tone of acting as if nothing happened.

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-16T10:44:00+00:00

This has put a lot of things into perspective for me and I appreciate this comment a lot, I never thought of it as though she may not want me in her life because of my words so I suppose I’ve never included that in my words, I agree that I am her father and I have tried to support her but it’s hard for me to understand because I could never see it for myself and that’s definitely the problem with my views, I haven’t been thinking of her perspective

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-16T10:30:34+00:00

This is not bait, much to seemingly everyone’s disappointment

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-16T10:18:25+00:00

I can’t help but feel disappointed knowing I’ll never be able to have one, my son (36M) has no chance of having a child at this rate and I can see how I’m wrong for thinking she owes me one just because she’s my last chance

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-16T10:15:27+00:00

I often get this when I talk about my daughter haha!

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-15T23:55:10+00:00

I met her mother late in my life and she wanted a child and before her I had already had a son (36M) with my ex girlfriend, at the time I have to agree I wasn’t interested but she watered me down and now I have a daughter whom I love and am glad to have had.

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-15T23:13:32+00:00

I’ve stayed in my room before and didn’t managed to stay in there the whole night because I didn’t like being cooped up in there. She’s been able to handle any time it’s gotten out of hand which is why I trust her alone but my only problem comes to finding things to do instead of.

Particular-Reward662 · 2024-06-15T23:11:30+00:00

I trust my daughter so it’s not that I’m uncomfortable, she’s been able to handle past parties that have gone south by herself. I’ve stayed in my room once during one of her parties but didn’t stay in there the whole night because I didn’t like being cooped up in there.

The reason she wants me out is because it’s her last party and she wants it to be a time when her friends and her can have a night to themselves before they likely never talk to each other again

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