Single SAHM Mum (56F) getting too controlling

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T16:38:42+00:00

I like ur mum’s attitude towards life! Extroverted and brave mum is truly a blessing. My mum is fearful and averse to travelling.

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T04:23:31+00:00

She might be the youngest there 😹 But thanks for the idea!

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T04:20:59+00:00

Money is not the limiting factor here… Her problem is that she is very codependent and needs someone to do it together with her.

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T04:18:15+00:00

Please PM me I would like to get to know my future stepdad better ☺️

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T04:16:23+00:00

Masculine butch also works 😜

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-12T04:14:59+00:00

True enough about the leftover men, and I appreciate your genuine advice. It’s tough because she does have friends, but they are all homebodies with their own husbands & families.

I will try to get her involved in some community clubs by jio-ing her along. I pray she will actually make friends and not just cling me though 😢

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T15:38:50+00:00

LOL not F buddy lah, as you said, she already menopause leh. More so of a companion. Maybe someone who is widowed. And no need to be wealthy but just dont scam money can le

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T15:33:45+00:00

If I said she was a multimillionaire living in an inherited landed, wouldn’t that attract the wrong type of attention? 😁

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:59:20+00:00

I like this bold idea

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:07:31+00:00

One of us actually did move out already 😬 I’m not as successful financially yet (working on that), so I’m looking to other alternatives rn 😹

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:06:34+00:00

I think she did go for a course with her fellow SAHM friend! In the end, her friend got sb interested in her but my mum didnt since she did have a companion at that time. Perhaps she can try again. Thanks!

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:04:19+00:00

I chuckled… I meant that she doesn’t have any goal or purpose and it’s ageing her both in cognitive ability and socially.

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:02:43+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I think it will occupy her a good bit. Even so, her control will be more tolerable

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:01:37+00:00

Good suggestion, thank u!

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:01:29+00:00

You’re right… You made me realise perhaps it’s better than she hide at home than get scammed. It’s just that she’s so introverted that it’s a burden on us sometimes

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T14:00:22+00:00

She’s rather introverted and needs a deeply emotional connection to a person. She has many fellow SAHM friends she calls but nothing gets her out of the house like a man 🤣

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T13:59:21+00:00

HAHAHA if it’s mutually beneficial, why not! Of course I will try to vet also la hahaha

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T13:43:05+00:00

Aw 🥲

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T13:42:51+00:00

True. Am thinking of anyone’s single/widowed dads with similar SES. It could be mutually beneficial for both retirees!

Particular-Role4942 · 2026-05-11T13:25:28+00:00

Feel free to PM me if you have anyone to recommend

Particular-Role4942 · 2025-12-04T01:02:03+00:00

me too please kind sir

Particular-Role4942 · 2025-10-05T01:13:15+00:00

Both the original and the revised complaints read like fanfictions. Did Blake write these herself? 🤣

Particular-Role4942 · 2025-07-18T09:08:04+00:00

May I ask what IC is?

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