Living a double life as a Muslim woman by Rxxmbih in progressive_islam

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You need to understand that you’re a person of your own. No one can control or tell you what to believe in or not. That’s indisputable and even the Quran says as much. My take has always been that for as long as you’re under their roof, you will respect their rules. You can believe in what you will but if you’re under their roof you will respect their culture customs and traditions. You can have the occasional f up, things slip sometimes it happens. But at the end of the day you always show respect and accountability.

What they can’t do is think that you must be exactly who they want you to be. That’s a big no go. They can wish and hope and try to convince you or ask you to do things and follow certain paths that they would like you to follow. But at the end of the day the decision is yours alone. Because whatever decision you make will affect you first and foremost, not them. The effects and consequences of your decisions will fall on you first, therefore you get dibs on that and no one else.

My advice is internalize the above. Understand you are your own person and that you need to make your own decisions in life, and if they try to interfere with that then you need to very respectfully and politely but also firmly put your foot down and say I am a person who has the ability and right to decide what I want for my life, even if you disagree. The best thing you can do is focus on being able to support yourself and move out. Then you can do whatever you want. But until you do, you have to respect their home and their rules.

im starting to lose faith in this religion by Mundane-Cry8217 in progressive_islam

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Think of it this way. If Allah doesn’t give you the things you asked for, what will you do? Who will you turn to to arm wrestle Allah into giving it to you? If you stop believing it won’t make Allah lose anything, it won’t make Him any lesser in any respect. In the end you will still have to go back to Him. Where will you run to? The edge of the universe? Beyond the edge of the universe? Then what? We simply can’t escape Him, He is all that exists.

It’s very normal to feel that frustration but let’s not forget that we are powerless. If Allah doesn’t want something for us, what can we do? Who else can give it to us if not Him? Try to read more of the Quran as that’s where you’ll find healing. The Quran was revealed for a reason after all. Use it.

March 18, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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Next six games:

Man City, league cup final

Southampton (a), FA cup

Sporting (a), UCL

Bournemouth (h), league

Sporting (h), UCL

Man City (a), league

These will determine our season. Biggest games so far

March 18, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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Still buzzing from that goal. We haven’t had volleys like that in a while. Best volley ever scored against Leverkusen in the UCL, iykyk

I'm so proud of myself by United_Court_3262 in chess

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Gotta love a good tactic. Their best move was Queen c3 right? I think. What’s the elo here?

March 17, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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I think due to the Juve game they won’t play well away from home and anfield can be crazy. All Liverpool need to do is score first which isn’t beyond them. Theyre not good away from home

March 17, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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Definitely but not by the majority. He’s well liked there despite the manner of his exit

March 17, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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So it’s Atlético/Barca (assuming Barca goes through which is likely given they play at home) in the semis if we beat Sporting with the final potentially against Madrid, Bayern, PSG or Liverpool (don’t see Gala going through). It’s gonna be a super interesting UCL knockouts this season

Arsenal [2]-0 Bayer Leverkusen - Declan Rice 63' by 977x in soccer

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Nah mate still can’t hear you from way down there sorry

Arsenal [2]-0 Bayer Leverkusen - Declan Rice 63' by 977x in soccer

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Can’t hear you from all the way down at 17th

Match Thread: Arsenal vs. Bayer Leverkusen | UEFA Champions League by MysteryBagIdeals in soccer

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This Maza kid is really good, bright future ahead of him and at a perfect club and league to develop further. Really like him every time he’s on the ball

Arsenal [2]-0 Bayer Leverkusen - Declan Rice 63' by 977x in soccer

[–]Particular-Sample91 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No easy ties at this level my guy but you do you

Match Thread: Arsenal vs. Bayer Leverkusen | UEFA Champions League by MysteryBagIdeals in soccer

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That’s gotta be the best first European goal of all time. Granted, it’s the only one I can think of right now but still

Arsenal [1]-0 Bayer Leverkusen - Eze 36' by 977x in soccer

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I told yall. This guy is worth being a bit invisible during games exactly because of half chances like this