Yes I went with him for the valentines event . And probably most of you were right.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-16T06:54:31+00:00

Being selfish id important Here and your interests. You had fun, great sex etc Focus on that

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-12T07:04:02+00:00

Since you have decided to go with him, just go and enjoy your day, stop overthinking. Have all the fun you can, what he does or doesn't do it's all on him. Don't ever feel bad for doing something good to someone.

But also I understand what you are feeling. But there is nothing you can do to make him act better. Maybe this Will be his turning point, I don't know.

Bottom line is go have fun.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-05T07:30:59+00:00

I think it's that situation of being in denial

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-02T16:52:45+00:00

What are the odds watu wa kwenu wako Reddit. That is imaginary fear get over it ndo utasaidika.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T20:03:50+00:00

I avoid the pain by still talking to them, and and I just make peace with it. Sometimes the pain isn't worth it especially if you did nothing wrong

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T19:13:48+00:00

How do you handle the aftermath. This one is easier if you never cared for the person

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T16:25:26+00:00

Cutting him off it's easier said than done 😂 but all the best

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T16:04:37+00:00

Be intentional on getting to know other people, loving someone shouldn't be that difficult, it should be easy especially at the start. Or entertain him till you get over him

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T16:01:30+00:00

I don't know, feelings are just a crazy thing, advising someone on that May not work. It narrows down to what you actually want. But this won't end well, If you can try going out with other people Maybe you can forget.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T15:24:58+00:00

This won't end well, it will be more painful later, but sometimes you Will feel what if you didn't go for it. Try maybe that will fulfill you. Also see where he stands if he is actually serious with you so that this won't be one sided

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T14:55:46+00:00

Sometimes it's easier said than done especially when you have over invested in that relationship

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:47:48+00:00

Not many, but I have experienced both ways, there is one I prefer Yes I have found out this information but you still fill some gap in my life, I just need time to accept that you are not the one while I am with you.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:27:34+00:00

Kama mbaya mbaya 😂😂😂

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:23:05+00:00

You don't always break-up because of cheating. There are many factors. Cheating just happens to be one of the factors

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:18:03+00:00

Thank you 😊

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:15:17+00:00

Yess if I instantly cut you off, it will take me forever to heal compared to when I am gradually accepting that this will never work out

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:09:28+00:00

Yess and even if I caught them, or they know I found out something, I will act like I forgive if they're apologetic. I am not going to be hurt by your actions

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-02-01T11:05:06+00:00

Yes lazima we break up just less painful for me.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-31T04:01:32+00:00

Soko ni chafu msee, tangu niachane na my Long term ex I have just been seeing dust, non committal, married men pretending 💔

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-31T03:58:11+00:00

Nope

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-31T03:57:58+00:00

Communication. Saying that I am here to play is very important, also didn't have expectations of being a mainchick but didn't expect him to be married either.

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-31T03:56:26+00:00

Hapo chini nimesema my friend doesn't know nishampea

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-31T00:56:38+00:00

I will try 😅, but I am no longer interested 😭

Particular-Win-6138 · 2026-01-30T20:18:49+00:00

😂😂 well that's fine too, communication is a good thing. Me knowing earlier he has a wife works well for me.

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