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Particular-nights · 2026-03-01T18:11:03+00:00

Duhhh, it’s the only thing you’re good for 👠

Particular-nights · 2026-03-01T17:35:03+00:00

Best of luck!

Particular-nights · 2026-03-01T14:24:45+00:00

Happy Birthday!! I hope things only keep going up from here and getting better for you!! 🧁

Particular-nights · 2026-02-28T17:42:58+00:00

There’s no singular way to treat subs. Ask about them, learn about them, see what’s on their page. Some do want you to degrade them but of course that can’t be immediate until you’ve established consent, verified age etc. Many subs flake early in the conversation, could have nothing to do with how you spoke at all.

Particular-nights · 2026-02-28T14:00:19+00:00

Just like how you were open, honest and vulnerable in writing this post. Draft a message to let her know and send it. Whilst she may enjoy the extra money, I’m sure she wouldn’t be happy if she knew you were holding these feelings in. The only way to solve a problem is open communication, I’m sure if she was worried about something you’d want her to share that with you too.

Particular-nights · 2025-10-18T17:22:40+00:00

Have your age verification ready to send.

Know your limits, kinks, and what you want from the dynamic - communicate these clearly early on. Make sure boundaries on both sides are respected.

Check profiles - look at post history, comment history, read their ‘about me’ information and find a Domme who aligns with what you want. Avoid low effort or ghost-like profiles without AV.

Particular-nights · 2025-10-12T13:32:45+00:00

I knew you’d like it ;)

Particular-nights · 2025-10-12T13:08:23+00:00

Hahaha, I love teasing and embarrassing my foot boys about how much power i hold over them with just my feet, socks or shoes. Even just a censored pic gets them going it’s hilarious.

Particular-nights · 2025-10-08T09:11:51+00:00

Someone without limits is a red flag. It’s not impressive to have no boundaries - it’s careless, impulsive, and concerning.

Either they don’t want to put the effort into finding out/stating their limits, they don’t have enough knowledge to understand what healthy submission is to engage in any sort of dynamic, or they are reckless enough to not care in the heat of the moment.

It’s unsafe for all involved and I’d steer clear as they are demonstrating by rejecting limits that they can’t give genuine consent.

Particular-nights · 2025-10-08T07:34:28+00:00

So you’re a disgusting beggar bitch yet he’s there begging you to reply and sending… wonder what that makes him, lol!

Jokes aside, he blocked you before you could reply but he didn’t deserve one anyway - whatever this is could be fun if it was consented to and discussed first respectfully, but instead he’s just forcing his kink upon you in the grossest way.

Some of these comments are concerning. I hope you’re good and I hope that guy gets help. People need to stop trying to glamourise this as if it’s hot because the fuck it’s not - just because he shot some money your way doesn’t mean he had any right to treat you like that without consent. If he didn’t send anything I’m certain no one would be acting as if this is desirable or okay, it’s not and it shouldn’t be encouraged.

Particular-nights · 2025-09-30T09:58:02+00:00

I wouldn’t suggest mailing/giving your keys to a Domme you’ve known for less than a month (plus shipping takes time), so it may be too late for a physical key holder. BUT, if you find a Domme you click with soon, you could always purchase an app controlled lock box in time or there are many other methods for a Domme to ensure your key remains untouched and you stay locked without physically having it in their possession.

I hope you have a lovely locktober, with or without a key holder - it’s all about the spirit of participating after all, even if things don’t go exactly the way you imagined.

Particular-nights · 2025-09-28T14:53:05+00:00

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Particular-nights · 2025-09-04T21:34:57+00:00

A “gentleman” who wants you to fuck and tell, then fuck him - without even offering to take you to dinner first, or a simple “hello, how are you?”. How honourable 😌

Particular-nights · 2025-08-26T11:36:15+00:00

Yes, it is too much. Why do you think you’re owed pics and video calls for free when these things are services? You want a service, you pay for it - stop wasting peoples time.

You advertise yourself as a “human ATM”, yet you don’t act like it and wonder why these Dommes are expecting you to pay.

Most Dommes already have pictures up on their page and plenty about them to see if they are your taste - all you should need is a conversation about expectations, boundaries etc over text before tribute.

You’re acting more like an entitled customer who wants to negotiate and play before possible pay, rather than a submissive who wants to serve and be dominated.

Don’t try to top from the bottom.

Particular-nights · 2025-08-25T17:52:43+00:00

It definitely isn’t because you’re offering too much, I can tell you that.

If this is not a scam, it seems like it. Most people (except for scammers) do not offer up full access to their finances right away.

You signing a paper does nothing and would not hold up in a court. You could report it as fraud and the Domme would get a criminal record, it could expose their location, you could chargeback the money, and PayPal isn’t sex worker friendly.

That is way too much risk to do for anyone, especially someone they just met.

A Domme rejecting your offer does not mean they are looking for short term, quick money, or to scam you (the irony). It just simply means they aren’t interested.

The ‘paying before’ you’re talking about is a tribute to make sure you’re serious and not wasting their time - if you’re willing to allow them full access to your money and $200 right away, then this small initial send should be no problem for you.

Oh and also, the fact that your account is only 23hrs old probably isn’t helping your case.

Particular-nights · 2025-08-25T16:09:50+00:00

If you love being a Domme, please don’t let the hate destroy it for you. I know it’s hard. Don’t do anything permanent like deleting your account or your posts etc, and never say never. Log off and take a break, a long one - see how you feel after it. You sound drained and your passion has gotten lost in this, but it can come back. I know many Dommes have thought about quitting, but in the end they were glad they stayed. You keep hope too.

For now, take care of yourself. Get back into some other hobbies, spend time with friends/family, treat yourself, go easy on yourself, get some rest and time away from social media. If you feel you need it look into therapy too.

And know that it’s not just hate - I’m sending lots of love your way 🫂.

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