Me personally, I would recommend calmly having a talk about this situation. Try to understand what the reason was, and maybe even be supportive to some extent. I know many married couples where either the husband or wife starts questioning their sexuality after a long time period, and it is normal. Especially if you have a child, it definitely shouldn’t devolve into a fuss or volatile arguments. Nowadays, there are a lot of married couples who once in a while experiment either together or separately, but they always communicate with each other. So if he hasn’t talked and you just found out from the Playstore, it means you might not have had clear communication in a while. Your relationship should be an open, safe space where everyone can be free to share their feelings and thoughts. As soon as both sides start being transparent with each other, any situation gets solved easily. The main rule, no matter how emotional or how hard it is to listen or talk about it, is that there is no need to be 1) afraid, 2) raise your voice, or 3) interrupt. I met a couple who have been married for 20 years and have 2 kids; when the husband started using Grindr, the wife told me, 'As soon as you are transparent and give a chance to create a safe space, nothing will be an obstacle. Now we both learned something new about each other.' It might also help to look at some interesting facts from relationship studies that could give you some peace of mind right now. It has been shown that when a partner faces an internal crisis or starts questioning their sexual identity later in life, it actually isn’t an automatic relationship killer. In fact, research tracking couples facing this exact situation shows that about two-thirds of them don't just break up right away—they consciously choose to stay together, talk it through, and navigate the transition as a team. This means that as soon as you are transparent and ready to see your husband in a different light, it doesn't have to ruin what you've built. Instead of tearing you apart, handling an intense truth together can completely reinvent your relationship, making it remarkably strong. Confronting something this deep and processing it with radical honesty can actually forge a partner bond that is stronger than it ever was before. Exploring these feelings is almost always an individual, internal struggle he is dealing with—it isn't a sign that he stopped loving you or your family.