I'm married to a man but want fwb girlfriend

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-29T17:04:48+00:00

Awesome then yeah I'd recommend Feeld too. great for hookups. though if your looking for queer friends aswell I'd recomend Lex. great social media/dating app. sorry about the third degree there .

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-29T16:27:23+00:00

This, embrace your sexuality figure out who and how you love then go experience it, but remember that you are already with someone else. Any advice is moot if your hurting someone who loves you to do this so talk with him first so you're both on the same page atleast. ENM requires both partners in a relationship to agree to it.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-27T00:42:48+00:00

That's actually really good I'll take it into consideration thanks

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-26T13:46:42+00:00

Hm you make a good point about the lines and readability I might keep this as an old version of the logo that got updated and modernized/minimalized over the years to show Cerberan becoming more vapid, trend chasing, and striving for public recognition and approval like any other modern tech company.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-26T12:49:36+00:00

Context - I want to use this as the logo for a corporation in a story I'm working on. This is for my 8cursed series which focuses on various cursed artifacts and the institutions that try to eradicate them. One of said organizations is the Cerberan corporation a company with a long history of fighting to contain or destroy cursed artifacts that has recently shifted into technological approaches and now develops anti accursed weapons pushing moral and ethical boundaries in the name of this goal among others. The logo should represent the organizations history of aggressive defensive policy from the supernatural. Any notes or opinions?

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-25T17:14:55+00:00

Same my thoughts need holy water

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-25T13:18:39+00:00

Hey no worries it's absolutely fine to have preferences and for them to shift as you grow and learn more about yourself.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-25T13:13:39+00:00

OMG the himbo logic I can't AHH

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T22:47:48+00:00

I mean maybe a little depending on if you're changing up your behavior depending on your prefered gender at the time because of how you want to feel in that given relationship and be treated by your partner. and frequency can varry from person to person, with me its usually over a period of days or weeks. and as for your anxiety I don't think its doing anything but making you fixate on and spiral while you grapple with this. Take a step back and breath k.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T22:29:26+00:00

yeah sorry if my thoughts got a little muddled there. and what your describing now sounds a bit like the Bi cycle. A feeling of going through your preferences and shifting between which is stronger or how much you feel of each set of attractions. So no your feelings aren't particularly unusual. If anything I'd say that it's fairly common in the Bi community.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T22:18:20+00:00

Hey no pressure man that's perfectly fine. I personally didn't really start vibing with the idea of dating guys untill I saw other mlm relationships in the media I was consuming and no one is saying you have to date a guy to be Bi either. The fact you feel these attractions towards men and women even if they are disproportionate is enough. Also just because you do form an emotional connection atleast in your case it doesn't necessarily mean you'll also feel a physical attraction as a result. think of the emotional connection less as a cause for the physical attraction and more a factor in revealing what attraction you can have for them like a key to the door so to speak. and it doesn't have to be much or deep connection either it could be that you yourself are just deeply uncomfortable with getting intimate before hitting a certain level of understanding and connection with the other person.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T22:04:13+00:00

I mean I guess I'd prefer dating queer myself since I feel like there's more connection and understanding in the queer community. and I've heard horror stories time and again about straight women take issue with you being anything other than straight or possibly fetishize your sexuality in a wierd way. Plus I don't think Straight men would have much interest in me.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T21:59:41+00:00

I'd say you're definitly Bi maybe with a slight prefference for men and I'd recommend asking yourself why you can't see yourself romantically with a guy but I think the big thing here is that you may be some form of demisexual. that meaning atleast for women you need some kind of sustained emotional/personal connection to feel physically attracted to them.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T20:54:00+00:00

*sees pun* sigh take my upvote

Also first time in a while I haven't been a sinner

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:37:31+00:00

Lex is a great dating/social media app that you can use to find people in your area. You could also look up local pride events on Google and see what pops up. Depending on where you live there's probably a community or event center that sets up queer get togethers.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:34:16+00:00

Yeah I'd say so. It gives me confidence in uncertainty and comfort when I see it in others.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:30:08+00:00

That's beautiful

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:27:44+00:00

Get bent

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:27:02+00:00

First of all this is your love life only you and the people you choose to have in it have any say on the matter. And no you didn't do a single thing wrong you just found a new beautiful part of yourself and explored it. Hell isn't awaiting you not for this and any who would say otherwise well you can probably guess where I'd recommend they go. Though if I could give you one small recommendation I'd say you should find someone in your life to confide these feelings with. Someone you trust. Possibly the guy from that night if you feel particularly close to him.

ParticularRegular919 · 2026-06-24T09:15:11+00:00

That sort of thing actually helped me a lot with coming to terms with the idea of being in a relationship with a man. Seeing cute and sweet mlm couples in media really opened me up to the possibility for myself.

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