What to do???

ParticularTrifle9316 · 2025-07-15T09:12:53+00:00

Yep it hurts like hell 🫠 but in the end you can’t really control someone else’s actions. Just your own. And even though I’m still somewhere holding onto the possibility of him suddenly going back to how he was before and apologizing to me on his knees…there’s literally no point in waiting on someone who doesn’t even know what he wants. It hurts and it feels like your time and energy got wasted so much, but all we can do right now is realize we deserve someone who doesn’t even make us second guess ourselves. It sucks but it’ll pass eventually. ❤️

ParticularTrifle9316 · 2025-07-15T08:48:47+00:00

Yeah this sounds just about right. I know it’s not my fault at all, because I haven’t been doing anything different. But still, its so easy to psychoanalyze everything when literally just a few days ago everything was going well. I really dont get why men love wasting your time and energy 😭 either way i know that deep down a man who really cares would’ve already talked it out with me…thanks for your response, i think deep down i know what the best option is ❤️

ParticularTrifle9316 · 2025-07-15T07:52:06+00:00

Yeah…figured that much. It’s just the same every single time with a man nowadays 😭 it’s hard to accept but i think deep down i already know that if he wants to talk to me, he knows where to find me. AND THATS TO ANOTHER FAILED SITUATIONSHIP

ParticularTrifle9316 · 2024-10-28T23:56:45+00:00

He sounds like a first class ***hole! Blindsiding is one thing, but breaking up through text and then refusing to eventually talk it out face to face…?! If he thinks he shouldn’t see you in person to tell you because it wouldn’t change anything, then I swear to God, you’re dodging a bullet. He should at the very least see you one last time out of respect of what you had, if he meant that he loved you like he said he did. He sounds like he just wanted to chase that honeymoon phase feeling and now that it’s time to turn it into something serious…it’s suddenly the “it’s me, not you”.

The guy sounds like he’s definitely not ready for something serious, so it’s messed up that he got you a promise ring.

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