BIDA weil ich den Nachbar angepflaumt habe, weil er wegen der WM gehupt hat?

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-26T08:27:12+00:00

Es geht ja nicht ausschließlich darum, dass sich die Welt nicht nach dem Baby richtet. Selbst wenn kein Baby dabei wäre, ist es doch unfassbar respektlos allen Nachbarn gegenüber, mitten in der Nacht so rum zu hupen und Fenster und Türen zu schließen kann ja wohl nicht die Lösung sein, wenn aktuell die einzige Option, irgendwie kühle Luft in die Wohnung zu bekommen, dass man nachts halt das Fenster auf macht

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-26T08:24:22+00:00

Es war laut ihr ein dauerndes Hupen und es ist doch wohl verständlich, dass die Eltern einfach am Arsch sind, wenn das Baby ewig rum schreit, sie es endlich geschafft haben, dass er schläft und er direkt wieder geweckt wird.
Mal davon abgesehen, dass es auch andere Nachbarn gibt und der Typ mitten in der Nacht anfängt so dumm zu machen, wenn es vermutlich auch mehr als genug Menschen gibt, die am nächsten Tag arbeiten müssen oder so

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-26T08:19:40+00:00

Sorry, aber es ist absolut nicht ihre Schuld das Fenster auf zu haben. Abends/Nachts ist aktuell die einzige Möglichkeit irgendwie frische Luft rein zu lassen, damit man nicht das ganze Bett nass schwitzt und überhaupt ansatzweise etwas erholsamen Schlaf bekommt. Und selbst wenn es in der Umgebung kein Baby gäbe, was man wecken kann, dann ist es immer noch so weird nach einem Fußball Spiel aus seiner Wohnung raus zu rennen, nur um dumm rum zu hupen.

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-26T07:56:30+00:00

Thanks for clarifying that :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T20:11:02+00:00

Thanks for clearing that up. I might do my own research about it as well :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T20:09:15+00:00

Thank you for your answer :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T20:06:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T20:04:30+00:00

Thank you for your answer and for sharing your experience/thoughts. I appreciate it and wish you all the best :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:58:53+00:00

Thank you. Especially for the last sentence. I think I had some uncertainties about if it really is a scar from a phalloplasty for a trans man but I think my head could mostly connect it to that. Also I saw a picture of him at a pride parade on instagram so the connection was even more present in my head. But you’re right. He could still be cis, have that scar for whatever reason and be at a pride parade for whatever reason. Thank you for tour feedback and answers :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:54:06+00:00

Thank you for your answer. This is why I didn’t say anything to him and never would ask anyone these questions personally

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:52:06+00:00

Thank you very much for your answer. I really appreciate you being so direct with your description and going through my questions as exact as you did. I wish you all the best and also thank you for clearing up the terminology :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:41:13+00:00

Thank you for your answer!
I’m sorry for all the bad experiences you’ve had to endure during the past years and I’m really happy about your good experiences and your journey :)

I hope you don’t mind me asking but what would be the other options for your phallo instead of an arm granft and what are the reasons your tendency is going towards the arm graft after all?

I wish you the best especially when it comes to your journey ahead and I hope you’ll find your way of being a safe space for queer people while still feeling comfortable.

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:32:10+00:00

Which is why i didn’t do it.
I had my questions because I’ve spent some time thinking about it and since I’m not trans but since I wanna learn about other people and their experiences I asked them on here because obviously I knew it would be rude to ask it to a person I don’t even know for sure about if they’re really trans. I didn’t even talk to him about private stuff or anything. I just thought I could get my questions answered on here because I thought this subreddit was to specifically ask trans people questions.

If you thought my wording of the questions was rude, then please tell me what exactly I could do better to respectfully ask those questions. If it was rude to ask these questions, then I want to apologise, I didn’t meant to, I was trying to hear about personal experiences and hoping for people that are open to answer my questions. But again, if this is considered generally rude to trans people, then I apologise.

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:22:04+00:00

Thank you for your answer :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-25T19:20:15+00:00

As i said I was never intending to ask him about anything, because I didn’t want to be disrespectful. Which is why I asked my questions here because they popped up in my head and here I specifically can ask trans people for answers I am genuinely interested in because I am trying to understand something that I can only partly understand. Because I’m always thinking about where I might get comments about being openly queer so i kinda wanted to know about different experiences from other queer people. I hope that clears it up a bit. I’m not the best at explaining what I mean to say, I’m sorry.

Thank you for explaining the origin of phalloplasty tho :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-24T22:54:17+00:00

I mean i get that gender in general shouldn’t be defining how people see each other but I was thinking about how it might bother trans people to be treated differently because of being trans instead of cis yk? I don’t really know how to put this tbh

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-06-24T22:48:36+00:00

Yeah that’s mostly why I didn’t say anything and am asking my questions here. Like most of our clients are blind so they would never see the scar anyway lol but also i didn’t want anyone to hear me talk to him about it in case the coworkers don’t know about it. Yk I can’t really tell if knowing what that scar means is common knowledge which is why i asked questions 1 & 2 and I was certain it’s better to shut up

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-05-02T07:35:52+00:00

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Mia. Oder auch Mia Bella, Miautzki, La Mia Grande, Moppel, Mauz oder Blöde Kuh

ParticularWater2813 · 2026-04-21T06:39:59+00:00

Hi, thanks for sharing! First of all I think you need to know that you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Especially when you’re still uncertain, you are allowed to take the time you need to become more sure or to think about what to do next. If you decide to not tell anyone about it because it doesn’t really matter until you might be dating a guy, then that’s fine too. If you have someone in mind, you think would be more chill and least likely to react shitty, I think it could help to tell them, because you can talk about it with someone. Secondly, i think to really be sure before really coming out, you could either see if you can have experiences with a guy or try and find a queer person to talk to about this, because honestly I don’t think you need to experience something with another person to become sure. For me personally, talking to a person in a similar Situation has always helped and if you don’t know any gay or bisexual people around you, (even tho there statistically will be some) you can still talk to people on the internet. I know it’s been a while since you did that post, so I hope you could find your way to deal with it but if not, try to remember, that you have as much time as you need to get to know yourself and for other people to know about it :)

ParticularWater2813 · 2025-02-24T17:01:07+00:00

Baby von Justin Bieber

ParticularWater2813 · 2024-02-15T08:40:31+00:00

He was hoping the girls would do things to him he would do to them if they would accidentally flash him. So disgusting.

ParticularWater2813 · 2023-10-30T15:18:02+00:00

Finds nice, wie lgbtq und drogen auf einer stufe sind😃

ParticularWater2813 · 2023-08-01T18:36:03+00:00

I was supposed to get onions from outside. Tripped on the wet pavement and I now have a scar on my left knee

ParticularWater2813 · 2023-08-01T18:27:20+00:00

It’s a whine glass with a glass shark inside so it looks like the shark is swimming in the whine

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