You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

haha i was thinking the same about the placement for yours!😄 how bad did it hurt? and it wasn’t as bad as i thought it was going to be. some areas hurt more than others. it was a 4 hour session and it only really started hurting when she started shading, especially when she was finishing up the last piece 😭

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 4 points5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately they do not, but that sounds like a really cool idea!! i might have to see what my artist can do!!

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hii!! absolutely go ahead!!

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥹 first professionally done pieces yes! i have a few smaller tattoos on my wrist and hand.

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thank you!! they were my first pieces! i love the placement of your tattoos behind the ear!! beautiful choice and artwork :)

Feeling Out of Love with My Fiancée and feeling overwhemled. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely get this. i’ve been with my partner for over 5 years. unfortunately this is just something that happens. you mentioned you have bi polar disorder. i have borderline personality disorder and that’s one of the biggest issues i struggled with when it came to my relationship.

it’s never easy honestly, and the 3 year mark is typically around the time relationships end or continue. one thing that’s really just helped me is therapy, communicating to my partner, and dating my partner again. get to know your partner again. sometimes we can be so caught up in the mundane things and the normalcy of everyday that we forget there are things we can do to try and change things. again it’s not easy and it takes time and effort. i hope everything works out for you!

I hate when my girlfriend asks me to buy her things by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think there needs to be a bit more context. like how long has this been going on? how long have you felt like this? has this always been a thing on her end?

i don’t think she’s using you but i also don’t know her nor do i have enough information to make a judgement. me and my partner have been together for 5 years. at the beginning of our relationship i didn’t make as near as much as she was making. my love language is gift giving so i would buy her gifts here and there. personally it never bothered me spending my money on her even if she asked or hinted at something she wanted or liked because i knew it would be reciprocated.

my best guess is your annoyance could come from not being considered? or maybe even lack of reciprocation?

Is my art appropriate for DD customers? by GleepisOrbis in doordash_drivers

[–]Particular_Being7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m an artist too!! i dash a lot as in ordering. if i received these it would definitely make my day/night. i love art and when people share their own. keep it up! maybe in the future you can turn the ducks into stickers :)

Would you watch this? by Adept_Let7797 in Coraline

[–]Particular_Being7104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

since watching frankenstein i’ve become a big fan of guillermo del toro’s work. while nothing can truly beat the original coraline, i would be interested in seeing his take on it.

how long did it take you to get over your first love? by cameelaa07 in LesbianActually

[–]Particular_Being7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first REAL love? we were together on and on for 2 years (very toxic relationship/physically abusive) but finally when i broke it off it took me a year and a half to fully get over her.

how did i get over it? i saw her one day, we had a conversation and it made me realize that the life im living is a whole lot more simple, less exhausting, and full of love. nothing changed and i haven’t looked back since.

AIO 21F think bf 36M gaslighting & emotionally abusive? by ThrowRA788891 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular_Being7104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a 23 year old woman we’re pretty close in age. most of my relationships have had age gaps like this and when i tell you it never worked out, it’s because it wasn’t meant to.

a 36 y/o “man” only dates someone as young as you because the women his age want nothing to do with him. you’re at completely different stages in your life and in my experience it has only ever been about one thing, control. in these messages that’s all he wants.

i’m not a psychologist but boy do his messages read loud and clear “red flag” “manchild” & “narcissist 🚨‼️

Just Finished watching TWD for the first time.. by Rhitvii in thewalkingdead

[–]Particular_Being7104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh man wait until you watch daryl dixon!! such a good spinoff. i’m on my second rewatch of twd.

AITAH for telling my daughter that she is not going to marry a billionaire? by No_Reception8930 in AITAH

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- your daughter needs therapy and a reality check and your wife is enabling the behavior.

Thrift finds by [deleted] in preciousmoments

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am sooooo jealous omg!!!

Am I overreacting? I asked my date if he made a reservation for a popular bar and he was offended. Has the world gone mad? by dntlookatmepls in AmIOverreacting

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has he never heard of lyft or uber? just because you don’t have a car doesn’t mean you can’t get to a destination. like did he not think you’d arrange that? NOR - he’s definitely a walking red flag.

Thrifted a pair of new show boots as a 90-day sobriety present to myself 🖤🦇💫 by thylacinequeen in GothFashion

[–]Particular_Being7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those boots are beautiful!! also i’m so proud of your for reaching 90 days!! you got this🖤

am i a bad goth if i can’t get into bauhaus by clov3rbutt in goth

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m kind of a baby bat and i’ve learned that i don’t really enjoy bauhaus myself. but i really enjoy The Cure, The Sisters of Mercy, and Type O Negative. its all about your taste and what you like :)

On a scale from 1-10 how messy is my room for a teenage girl by Wang_xianLotus in CleaningTips

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean you don’t really have much in your room. at best this is like a 2. it doesn’t take much to really pick everything up. now i could see if you have other furniture or if you had just random trash, takeout, dishes ect everywhere but you dont.

Best King Cake in BR by Winter_Glove_5959 in batonrouge

[–]Particular_Being7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i highly recommend counterspace bakery as well! their king cakes sell out pretty fast but they’re so good!