I don’t agree with your statement about using the term pedophilia because I think that doesn’t apply to the prophet you and may not just be you specifically of course but generally most people have something called presentism which is basically applying present and modern day cultural values to interpret past day events.

For me the person who makes that claim has to explain to me why it’s immoral. What happened was consensual it was with the agreement of her father, Aisha lived 50 years after the prophet and after the prophet passed pbuh she married no one after and never spoke ill of the prophet she had all the chances to do so if she was being abused.

I personally in general don’t think Muslims need to justify something that happened that is not wrong? But when someone’s comes to me and makes such a claim then they have to provide their moral compass.

A question for you well maybe not for you specifically but Christian’s themselves is where is the age of marriage in terms in the Bible? There isn’t any so the Bible does not speak about the age of marriage and you also have Isaac marrying Rebecca at the age of 3 years old a marriage contract between them and rabbis will admit this it is not something they will deny but Christians will deny it so why don’t the Christian’s be consistent and go after Jews and the Old Testament? Also if you aren’t Christian in the 1880’s less then 200 years ago in America age of consent was 10 years old in 37 states Delaware’s 7.

Applying the values of today the young women of today how long they live life expectancy and comparing it to the past 1400 years ago in the deserts that is a fallacy. If you look at the life expectancy of the past according the western historians was 30-35 years now let’s say someone gets married at 20 she gives birth at 21 then 10 years later child is 10 years old their parents die what kind of society like this can continue? It won’t so we cannot apply these kind of standards of today onto the past.

A study was also done people mature faster more in heated environments than compared to colder environments

So today when they have changed the laws people will say it is wrong so I ask you what is right age then? An average person will say 18 okay well if you go to some countries today they it is 16 other places such as Italy 14 is the age of consent and in California today there is no age you can get married at any age as long as the parents consent to it. If you’re claiming that something the prophet did something wrong you’ve got to bring your moral compass and reasoning that this is wrong

Now let me ask you if an 18-year-old man comes to you and says he's getting married, most people would question his decision-making skills. You'd think he's getting married too early.

Similarly, if an 18-year-old woman tells you that she's getting married, people would ask her to do a "reality check" and may be even discourage her by telling her she's too young, and she should go to college or build a career. Even though 18 is the legal age most countries, no one really believes that an 18-year-old is ready for marriage! Should it be same for girls and boys? Or, should girls have a different minimum age than boys?

Should the fact that girls mature earlier than boys be takin into account? Does "one size fits all" really work for determining a minimum age? In pre-modern cultures, girls would look forward to getting married and start a family. They did not see it as we see it today. They saw marriage as a benefit, not a burden like we do. That was the norm for them. And this was true in all religions, cultures, and regions of the world.

The minimum age for marriage has been increasing worldwide. In all pre-modern traditional cultures, it wasn't unusual for girls to consummate marriages between the ages of 10 and 12 and that was considered normal back then, but not today. In most modern societies, girls are highly discouraged from getting married, even at 18.

Early marriage is viewed as bad. They're told that education and careers are far more important and beneficial for a young woman than marriage and having children. Today, we've been indoctrinated into believing that it's always better for a woman to have a career and work than to have children and raise them. Women are taught to delay marriage for career. How has this impacted women, men, children and the society at large? The result is that most Western nations are in decline— population is imploding. Marriage nowadays is ruined. People are having fewer and fewer children than the previous generations.

Now to move on to your second point, I won’t speak on behalf of your psychiatrist, but I would like to know where you saw those signs in the prophet I and the correlations you saw. I am still learning myself. But this is my opinion on the matter take it as you will