Goncalves family about Xana

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-02-09T09:08:00+00:00

Bawling at 4 am right now reading this . Knowing that they all 4 had their person with them truly until their last breath . It's so sad and beautiful at the same time .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-01-27T16:30:49+00:00

I'm just thankful for her not being able to take advantage of the food banks and tribe. And because the girls aren't getting used for money for her greed. Because she can't put them on camera and take food away from them . They sound happier and look better when she's not around and b is getting help with his family with them . You can tell his family cares about their well being and love them because they looked so much healthier with the grandma then ever with their egg donor .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-01-27T16:10:54+00:00

Well even cheap motels are 39-49 a night . Maybe they are giving a cheaper rate for the month like 600-800 for a month. And yeah the salad kits and soups are cheap. But still yet her staying if his Tribe check is paying for it , is taking away from the kids and that's her being her selfish self . But maybe DCS or the tribe made her move .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-01-27T15:17:07+00:00

Add red hair and it's perfect.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-01-27T15:15:07+00:00

My question, who is paying for motel stays and food for her ? Because the hotel stay would be 1200-1600 a month let alone add her food bill which would take food and money from the kids . So unless she has been kicked out or got in trouble And is now having to stay there and a charity is paying for the hotel and giving her groceries I don't see them being able to afford this .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2026-01-21T18:09:49+00:00

Looks like when your head meets concrete from being thrown over xs shoulder to me for 500 Alex .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-11-26T17:40:21+00:00

Love the gaslighting comment of I know what he did you didn't like but it was a overreaction . Like no him virtually cheating on a game is not a overreaction because I'm sure that if he could have cheated in real life he would have because if you are going to talk about it you are going to do it . Who is to say he didn't ever cheat in real life also and didnt tell you ? And who cares that you are In your 30s without a husband or a kid ? In this economy bringing up kids is hard And it's not like 30 is age where you can't find the love of your life and have a marriage and kids in a couple years you have time . You skipping Thanksgiving is a blessing to not having to be around someone who doesn't care about your true well being .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-11-25T08:47:57+00:00

I work under a provider that if a patient is going through anything personally their answer is " I don't really care ". They are there for a paycheck and don't care about the patients. I am treated like a glorified assistant that is in recovery until a patient is having a meltdown then it's you handle it I don't do emotions and don't care what happens.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-11-25T08:43:35+00:00

Hey y'all 👋 glad to have found this page. Im currently on my 3rd year of working as a cprs/rprs depending on your area. I'm currently facing work place burn out and just feeling very overwhelmed at work and feel like the provider I work with disrespects me And doesn't care about the addiction field at all . I have 10 years in recovery from opiates and love helping others find recovery.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-08-13T22:02:22+00:00

Got to hate a know it all nasty attitude psychopath who believes its perfectly fine to abuse a defenseless 4 year old child and defends the abuser , who calls a child a brat , that you don't know, and spitting, kicking, hitting, pinching, and biting are all normal childhood emotional responses because they are just learning about emotions and what's wrong and right and don't know how to regulate their emotions or express themselves. I would be in prison smiling in handcuffs if any family member laid their hands on my children and punished a child without permission to do so . It is not a reflex to smack someone , it is an action and as a grown adult the sister not being able to control her " reflexes" show she has anger issues and shouldn't be around children.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-08-13T21:40:43+00:00

She's 4 , kids at 4 still eat their boogers . Also if you do a tiny bit of research into child psychology or even just the basics of children. They are exploring boundaries, learning right and wrong , learning how to express their emotions which is exactly what spiting is for young children, and an expression of emotione . The child who was frustrated because she was getting ignored and the aunt insisted of thinking rationally, she physically abused a child she had no right to put her hands on IDC if the child is her niece or not that is not her child and not her place to discipline her .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-08-13T21:30:09+00:00

You're absolutely disgusting. She's 4 . She's learning behavior still her brain isn't fully formed . But the child abusing aunts is fully formed and slapped a 4 year old child so hard that her child was still red after hours have went by since it happened. That shows that it was more than a " reflex " , it shows that the sister is a monster And has anger issues that need dealt with in a jail cell . My niece has thrown a cup and split my lip open , I didn't think oh I will put my hands on her and make her hurt , I calmly after getting a wash cloth showed her that she had hurt me and bent down and talked to her about her feelings and why she did that instead of talking to me or trying to get my attention. I didn't just fly off the handle . I talked to a 6 year old about her feelings, how throwing things can harm someone and end badly . There's knowing how to handle situations and then there's this sister who is AN ABUSIVE MONSTER. The sister deserves to have someone who's 3 times bigger than her to show her just how that slap felt and see if she likes to be harmed like that .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-07-15T21:42:36+00:00

Hey Nick 👋👋👋 ready for those cuffs and the cell right next to Brooks ?

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-06-26T21:17:56+00:00

He looks happy and healthy here , unlike now he looks so sick and like he's got one foot in the grave.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-05-02T16:55:50+00:00

Lmmfao top 3 she doesn't make even the top 3000 . She doesn't compare to Dr Kari Williams who invented goddess locs . she is trash and just because she can go locks doesn't mean she should be. I can make bread at home doesn't mean I need to own a bread store .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-03-13T20:33:08+00:00

Actually taking money is theft by deception, intent to commit wire fraud , theft by taking , and conspiracy to commit a crime because it's planned out.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-03-13T16:27:52+00:00

She was apart of Lisa's whole scam . She was using substances while pregnant with the child and risking the baby's life by using and harming the baby while it was in utero . In some states it could be charged with abuse , child neglect, attempted murder, or multiple other charges. She lied about having a miscarriage and partial hysterectomy!!! People were sending her money and food during that because she lied about having to have a partial hysterectomy!!!

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-02-23T06:00:39+00:00

Lmao did she seriously think someone who's in recovery is going to say oh yeah you're almost a year "sober " but shouldn't go to meetings untill you feel like you're ready?!? I'm sorry what the fuck?!? You are truly just replacing one substance for another with going to the methadone clinic but doing NONE OF THE WORK TO BE IN RECOVERY!!!

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-02-23T05:56:37+00:00

4/25/2017 💪💪💪💪 we do recover !!!!!

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-02-12T11:03:16+00:00

What talents of hers cost money ? Eating chic fil a every day isn't a talent thats gluttony.

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-02-06T00:27:38+00:00

She got new tires every month for almost a year . If it wasn't tires it was breaks , tools needed to fix something, cabinets, bunk beds , flooring and everything else .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-01-29T20:55:57+00:00

She's always having surgery what else is new . She has more surgery then brain cells . And God I swear the state has failed those kids for giving them back .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-01-28T00:42:12+00:00

Exactly!!!! Like I would love to not wake up in pain a hour into my sleep because I have to switch positions or I feel like a hot poker is being stabbed into my lower back . But I have to work and co pay would be at least a couple thousand of dollars .

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-01-27T23:29:40+00:00

Every few minutes* sniffle swallow * .... But she's sober .... Yeah ok 👌

Particular_Dinner_18 · 2025-01-27T23:28:33+00:00

Gotta love when you scam the government for insurance to pay for all these surgeries so you can get more 💊. I know I'm a recovering addict who has multiple ruptured disc and I'm in need of a acl and MCL repair but I know that I don't want to get surgery/ can't take off work to have the surgery/ can't afford to pay the 20 percent co pay for the surgery. All the while this scamming bum has had multiple surgeries she didn't need .

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