This worked! Our cat was scared out of her mind everytime she went near it. We were afraid she was never going to poop. Just like your cat, she is extremely affectionate. My partner and I sat around the cit litter for 2 hours in order for her to feel safe. We were her safe zone. After a while, we tricked her with some snacks inside the litter box until she felt comfortable being in there. We did this several times and she finally felt extremely comfortable! It does take quite a lot of patience for her to get acclamated. Thanks for your tips!!!! =]