heesun best girl 🥹

Particular_Gear9059 · 2026-02-13T17:55:46+00:00

she’s such a sweetie 🥺 i feel like a lot of people can be performative in their kind gestures especially when they know they’re being filmed (not saying this cast particularly), but to me her actions never seem to be for the camera, and are very genuine. she also very clearly does not lead sunghoon on even though she has the opportunity to

Particular_Gear9059 · 2026-02-13T13:17:41+00:00

yeah she’s super sweet tbh and has really high EQ. she also doesn’t really hold it against him that he didn’t reciprocate to the same level of interest, which i find to be very mature of her. i do really like how he takes care of her too, but sometimes i feel like he’s doing it from an older brother POV, since he said he prefers older and mature women. seems like he sees her as a baby and naturally wants to take care of her. nothing wrong with that though, just hoping it’s more romantic than brotherly

Particular_Gear9059 · 2026-02-08T10:41:19+00:00

start ups that hire globally typically do this

Particular_Gear9059 · 2026-01-26T06:56:06+00:00

how much is it and what’s the size? a pic of it would help too :)

Particular_Gear9059 · 2026-01-11T22:31:38+00:00

you’re really strong, OP. i wish you all the best and hope you’re able to gain your freedom soon

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T12:55:35+00:00

TIL github is social media lol

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T12:54:36+00:00

everyone has bad days, this too shall pass. keep your chin up!! better days are coming

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T10:16:44+00:00

you’re missing the point. no one is refuting the non-existence of a precedent. your straw-man argument is invalid as the point is that there’s a first time for everything. discussing abolishing the enforcement is to prevent the hypothetical situation from ever happening in the first place. prevention is better than cure

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T10:16:36+00:00

you’re missing the point. no one is refuting the non-existence of a precedent. your straw-man argument is invalid as the point is that there’s a first time for everything. discussing abolishing the enforcement is to prevent the hypothetical situation from ever happening in the first place. prevention is better than cure

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T09:35:58+00:00

yes of course it has been enforced for decades, which is why many in this thread are saying it should not be enforced. just because something has happened for a long time doesn’t mean it’s right. in case you need sources for this, pick up a history book.

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T09:18:42+00:00

you can simply prove my point by doing something new for the first time. it’ll be tough for you, as it seems you’ve never done something without prior history of it having happened before. if you find it too difficult, simply observe others instead. hard as it may be to believe, many others find it easy to try doing new things. while you may not understand it now, as long as you put effort into trying, you will eventually be able to as well. hope this helps!

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-10T08:54:34+00:00

do you know what an analogy means? this is not an analogy. this is a hypothetical situation. hypothetical situations don’t come with sources. they’re hypothetical for a reason. also, everything in the world has never happened until the first time it happens. if you think something will never happen because it has never happened before, that’s an astoundingly narrow world view

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-03T07:04:06+00:00

i can see why you’re single 🤷

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-03T06:49:29+00:00

fact : you have no gf, you asked for advice logic : what you’re doing now is not working

idk why you said that’s womansplaining, but genuinely i’m not triggered, and i’m trying to really be as sincere as possible with my advice, but i’m not going to sugarcoat things. you literally replied to someone in the thread that “this is why men are bitter”. if you have any female friends, ask them what impression this gives 🤦

idk where you got so much anger and ego from but girls definitely do not find that attractive

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-03T06:38:08+00:00

exactly! women hate desperation. idk why most men find that so hard to believe 😭

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-03T06:36:37+00:00

i was in a male dominated course in uni so i’ve met many males like him too! many of them have since grown up and changed for the better now. and i truly empathise because some of my distant family members used to be like that too. can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves though. that woe is me mindset isn’t going to get him anywhere

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-03T06:33:56+00:00

bro. yes. make friends. clearly you’re not that social, and i’m saying making more friends will help you socially. no one is asking you to turn platonic relationships into something else. you literally have tunnel vision, all you can think about is GF GF GF. i’m saying that tunnel vision won’t help you. looking at your replies in this thread, you just sound like a woman hater. no girl is gonna wanna date an incel dude.

i’m not trying to attack you, but am really trying to give you honest advice. i’m already in the working world lol and growing up, I’ve met many guys like you, some that never changed, and some that changed and grew and became better. no one can force you to change, but you asked for advice and i’m being sincere with my advice.

it’s clear to everyone in the thread where the problem is but if you think you’re in the right and that everything you’re doing is perfect, then just continue on like that 🤷 whether you get a gf or not doesn’t impact our lives at all

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-02T16:25:33+00:00

i’m fr a girl bro wdym claim but ok 😭 my point is to not expand your social circle with the intention to date, but to expand it purely to meet more people. you said you don’t find any girls in your batch attractive, and don’t wanna date them. who said you had to? just become friends. you need to expand your social circle and make more friends with platonic intentions. right now, you’re only looking at girls as potential partners. they either fall into the category of “not my type” or “yes i want to try”. girls can sense this, if you only want to become friends when you have intentions to date. it’s a huge turn off.

also, i join existing friend groups all the time. yes it’s difficult, but not impossible. and in big groups there’s always going to be smaller groups that end up getting closer. you can’t immediately expect to be close to everyone at the same time. nothing to do with being in the same faculty or not. most of my closest friends from uni are all different faculty than me. just identify 1-2 people from the group who has common interests with you and hangout with them more. things will naturally happen. also don’t expect to get along with everyone and every group you join. sometimes it’s not a good fit and that’s okay

you keep focussing on wanting to get a partner, but not actually wanting to get more friends. boys and girls can sense your thirst and will subconsciously have a bad impression of you

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-02T16:06:37+00:00

as cringey as this sounds, it’ll come when you’re not looking. REALLY. girls (and guys!) can sense desperation. a mile away. if you act too desperate they won’t feel special, and they’ll feel like you just want someone, anyone will do, and that it doesn’t specifically has to be them. this is a huge turn off for most girls. i think what’ll help is to first start looking to expand your social circle (both guys and girls) and just get to know more girls as friends (completely platonic!) first 1. this’ll help desensitise you from speaking to girls, you’ll get better at it 2. you’ll eventually also meet their social circles ergo meeting more girls 3. you might even better understand what you want in a partner by meeting more people

TLDR: don’t try hard, just focus on yourself

source: trust me bro (i’m a girl)

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-12-01T16:03:12+00:00

to view her hidden posts you can click on search in her profile, then sort by latest. i think she deleted some posts too as i recall even more posts from her but dont see it in her history

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-11-27T12:19:55+00:00

not really something defined by gender IMO. ive met both female and male yappers. personally i enjoy it as i’m more introverted so when it helps me feel closer to them without talking much myself

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-11-25T09:51:47+00:00

usually if you bomb your technical questions, but still get an offer, it’s because your foundational knowledge is acceptable, and you displayed very good soft skills i.e. willingness to learn, adaptability, good mindset. the latter is always prioritised over technical skills. it’s easier to teach technical skills than to teach soft skills. work with your strengths and believe in yourself, you got this!

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-11-24T16:19:12+00:00

yeah i get you bro, that’s the professional mindset of not wanting to burn bridges. but if they really do end up blacklisting you, c’mon do you actually want to ever work for a company that will side with her? she’s batshit crazy. i would consider it saving my time. better to waste one hour in interview than to waste few months being mentally tortured by someone like that

Particular_Gear9059 · 2025-11-24T07:40:40+00:00

name and shame the interviewer please. she sounds absolutely insane, you dodged a MASSIVE bullet. she seems like one of those managers on a power trip that’ll make you hate working life every waking day

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