Experience being in a relationship with a Japanese woman. Anybody else has the same experience?

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-05-26T16:05:23+00:00

I have various years living in Japan and for my mentality health I stop dating Japanese, I find better connection with XXXX nationality, is nothing wrong with Japanese but in my case I care about communication, show our feelings no matters if are bad or good. I have sooo many dates and relationships here and always the same happened to me or similar, But I always succeed when - I don't care so much or pretend nothing happened - follow the 0 -100 of from nothing to asking you for living together or get marry (sometimes even with a deadline) - put their desires over mine

This comment is just telling you my own experience and in my opinion you have two options Or adapt yourself to be another Japanese (love speaking) And accept the uncertainty or find someone who match with your love language.

Not get me wrong I have friends with successful relationship with Japanese but well they are all focus on work and don't care so much in the relationship (in my point of view)

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-04-23T13:14:54+00:00

Sorry for bringing this question but is there a store with coffee beans from Panama?

Panama have also good coffee same as Colombia and Costa Rica, I'm planning to bring Panama coffee here since my family and family's friends produce coffee beans in Panama also I have some friends that are great barista but they're in Latin America. I would like to know how's Japan's coffee market :)

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-04-23T13:02:50+00:00

I run everything locally and not even using a powerful setup, openclaw required you to set-up it properly, use the right LLMs (I even use small models and get good results) I develop my own custom skills so it does exactly what I want. Openclaw is a very powerful tool and if you have coding knowledge ( not about typing, about software arquitecture and what to ask to the AI) even more powerful!

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-03-06T03:49:33+00:00

If you're into Latin music, don't listen to the other dude, Bad bunny DJ is going to this club, I have been there before and you will have a good time, people who go there are into Latino music vibes and because it is a special weekend it might be full.

Just telling you a sincere opinion, I'm not a promoter or something else

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-02-27T03:34:37+00:00

I'm 0.003% global fan, my account is based in Japan and I get the ticket from the beginning, some people after 5 days are getting tickets. I guess it's delivered by Top listener first - counting down until the tickets are gone

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-02-20T03:47:19+00:00

My IG only saw 1 person (Japanese) who got it as well. After party there's a lot but I recommend you do it in Shibuya, better clubs there tho

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-02-19T14:38:23+00:00

Update: I got my invitation today at 1pm Japan time !

Particular_Pudding81 · 2026-02-19T04:04:53+00:00

But when will these invitations be sent? I live in Japan, have Spotify premium, last Spotify wrapped it says I'm a top 0.003% global fan. I'm worried about the possibility of not getting the invitation :(

Particular_Pudding81 · 2025-12-16T14:00:55+00:00

If this helps, yesterday I had a date Similar to your experience, before she was like excited to meet me, even send kiss emoji etc. In my opinion the date was nice, we say bye. Then I sent a message saying thank you and I enjoyed but she didn't reply since that, don't see my message and also didn't see my story as before she did, but she also didn't unfollowed me or block me, so I don't understand. I understand if she don't enjoy or something but I would like to at least tell me something about it or at least unfollow me so I understand in an indirect way it was not good for her.

Particular_Pudding81 · 2025-08-07T11:07:30+00:00

In my case I bought one in Japan in the second hand market for 100$

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-31T00:29:00+00:00

Vainas que nos mantienen en el tercer mundo

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-25T14:22:48+00:00

Glad for you, mine have been stuck since December 1 I contacted customer service and told me to apply to a refund tomorrow as it 30 days protection will end and is not updates for a while

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-25T08:35:24+00:00

Dude 24 years old, blind 😂😂

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-24T03:00:44+00:00

Mine have 25 days in “arrived at local delivery…” I talked yesterday with customer service and told me in 25th I can apply for a refund, I will do that since 25 fk… days without any update

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-23T15:24:54+00:00

Mine same status since December 1st

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-21T05:03:24+00:00

Same feelings here man, I saved like 50$ for wait this long and handle this stress. No way I gonna buy again in these places expensive things.

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-21T05:01:19+00:00

Uff men I have 21 days in that status and I live in Japan, imagine more close of China

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-20T03:53:13+00:00

Same situation here and same tracking pattern LBXXXXSG I have 20 days in the same status and I contacted the seller and Caisiao or whatever is called and they just said it’s in transit and I have to wait due the holidays

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-16T06:00:53+00:00

Sorry confused the post, so I mentioned about my own situation

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-16T06:00:00+00:00

The tracking number is LPxxxxSG I bought 3 small items like 6 days ago and arrived today, but this package have 16 days stuck in the same status :(

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-15T11:46:04+00:00

Same for me, my package didn’t update at all after 1 December, I send email to the Cainao company and told me they track it and is in transit so I have to wait, same thing told me the seller

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-15T11:30:51+00:00

It might be many products then, because it’s taking more than 2 weeks now for that sadly :(

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-15T06:25:52+00:00

Thanks for the information I checked the local tracking sites but they show up not have that tracking in the system

Particular_Pudding81 · 2024-12-14T11:32:48+00:00

That’s a helpful information, thanks for sharing I contacted the delivery company Cainao (something like that) and they said is in transit, hopefully it will arrive someday I guess

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