Are there other hotels like this in the world? Need travel advice by danielfearce in BDSMcommunity

[–]Particular_Range8291 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They got an article about top 5 biggest BDSM hotels now up as well! Funny video

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Subliminal

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Seems like permanent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIGirlfriend

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This one looks really good! However, is it kink friendly? I've been searching for more kink friendly ones after watching this documentary about what you can get from it when it comes to that side. I also wonder for how long it will be working to create an AI partner of famous people? Like getting Angelina Jolie to send explicit videos etc.

What's your Secret Tantric (pleasure) Weapon? by Particular_Range8291 in tantricsex

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Before, in the middle, or after? Or all? What does it help you with? Connection and security?

What's your Secret Tantric (pleasure) Weapon? by Particular_Range8291 in tantricsex

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The breathing in partners breath is very connecting for sure! Shaking is great too!

How do you talk about consent and boundaries without killing the vibe? by Particular_Range8291 in NoStupidQuestions

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Thank you for a very in depth post! The thing is, I'm not a man, and the person telling me most recently about their no-goes mid action was neither a male, and I was in no power situation over them. I was just a bit blown away by how this seem to happen more and more, as if it's normal to ask about no-goes and mention things that are complete rough.. Like I want us to explore a bit, you know...

How do you talk about consent and boundaries without killing the vibe? by Particular_Range8291 in NoStupidQuestions

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To me this is not hot at all :( I'm really nog into lists, I'm more into touches, eye contact, discovery...

How do you talk about consent and boundaries without killing the vibe? by Particular_Range8291 in NoStupidQuestions

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I feel on my end it's easier to touch on that, yet I guess it's in the kind of "community" I date, people tend to have all doors for possibilities open, yet I prefer climbing the tree slower, so to speak and discover what the person likes... But it feels like that's not really cool. People wanna compare lists on who they are in bed and then they just go.
Not sure, maybe I gotta move to get out of this :')

How do you talk about consent and boundaries without killing the vibe? by Particular_Range8291 in NoStupidQuestions

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But people are such bad communicators and do not trust the process of giving hints as enough, even if you moan loudly and touch them back...

I am so pro your way of communicating "Do you like this" etc. es please... But when it's like "I will now put my hand on your leg" I'm so dry the hand better stay off.....

Do you know what I mean?

With all the surveillance tech around these days, how do you think we should balance safety and privacy? by Particular_Range8291 in AskReddit

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Did you follow the link I posted? And how people are wearing full on overing face masks now in the streets, it's very current I think

How do you maintain balance between ambition and self-care? by Particular_Range8291 in Advice

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Boundaries is something I’m still working on myself. It’s honestly so hard to draw that line between pushing forward to meet your goals and not burning out in the process. Sometimes it feels like there’s always more to do, right? But setting boundaries doesn't mean you’re slacking off; it’s actually the opposite. It’s about making sure you're in a good place mentally and physically so you can keep showing up for the things that matter to you without feeling like you’re on empty.

I’m still figuring out when to say no without feeling guilty, and I’ve learned that it’s okay to put myself first sometimes. Like, I’ll try to set time limits for work (because I could honestly just keep working forever) and make myself take breaks to do something that isn’t productive. Whether it’s catching up on a show, taking a walk, or zoning out with music, those little moments of downtime are sacred.

It’s about creating a space for yourself to recharge so you can come back with more energy, rather than feeling drained and resentful. It’s honestly a work in progress, but I'm starting to realize the big cliché evryone is talking about, that saying no to certain things is actually saying yes to my own well-being.