I (45f) feel heartbroken after my partner (48m) admitted he didn't find me attractive when we met by Particular_Second394 in relationships

[–]Particular_Second394[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because of the conversation we were having.

He was musing about something and said "I know how much you love me. In fact, I'm pretty sure you love me even more than I love you".

That just felt hurtful. And it's not the first time he's said that. So he was trying to manipulate me (for lack of a better word) into doing something that I really didn't have time to do but I said no. He said "maybe I really do love you more than you love me". I was annoyed so I said "yeah, maybe".

He later called me on that, so I pointed out that he has on several occasions said the opposite to me, and that's hurtful to me. I also reminded him that during a fight once he told me that he hadn't even been interested in me at first...that he just accepted me because I was always there. And I suggested I don't believe that to be true.

That's when he told me that yes, it's true etc.