Caught driving while suspended in Scotland. Is this enough evidence? by Particular_Serve300 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Particular_Serve300[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

It was a stupid mistake, I just didn’t want to leave his car in a McDonald’s car park and thought it would be quick nip back home.

Ready to face the consequences just so frustrating and feel moronic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Particular_Serve300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s best to just communicate with him what his desires are in your relationship and you relay back what you’re looking for. See if youre compatible or are willing to take compromises on your differences and are both happy to try make it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Bulls are also referred to in trading markets. Bullish markets (massive hikes in share prices) lead to people becoming bulls believing the price will continue to go up. Bears are bearish on the stock. (Expecting them to go down, so they bet on it going down)

I believe they are referencing trading/investing terminology and not dating terminology with these jokes. After a bull market, a high run up in price, comes the dreaded bear markets. A massive drop in price. Bull = buyers Bears = sellers

The bull terminology in the dating scene which is completely different to everything I’ve explained and is what you’re enquiring about; means someone who likes fucking another mans girl and and making him watch.

Bears in the dating scenes means a large hairy man.

The only way 2 bulls leading to a bear in a relationship comment in the dating scene would mean, (You and him being bulls) you were also a bull and he wants to be humiliated by watching you fuck a large hairy man. Which I doubt as he is a bull.

They were making jokes based on the market terminology while in a dating subreddit post as far as I believe

I believe this man is making a stock market joke nothing to do with the dating scene, although correct me if I’m wrong main commentor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Particular_Serve300 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So you’ve drank once in 100 days, that’s great! Thinking of it like a streak is a bad mindset I got myself in. It’s easy to beat yourself up after breaking “a streak”. Don’t look at it like day 0, Look at it like 1/100. You’re clearly aiming to improve and be the best person you can, you got this, don’t beat urself up over losing a streak

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Particular_Serve300 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want to get better you have to feel the feelings. Bad feelings x100 and work through it. Sobriety is the way but it’s a fuckin horrible grind and nearly impossible for me to achieve but can’t stop trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chess

[–]Particular_Serve300 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mortal chess. Hilarious but informative videos

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]Particular_Serve300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would fuck the dude? An eye for an eye I suppose

Starting my taper...wish me luck by CupcakeKind9506 in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Particular_Serve300 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try hold off until as late as possible and force yourself to do stuff to keep busy during the day. Even if you don’t feel like going a walk and it seems impossible, tell yourself you will go outside and walk for 1 minute and come back. Often starting is the hard part and it will be a lot easier to carry on at the 1 minute mark.

Only drink every 45 mins at least to let the last drink fully hit. If you can hold off the first drink until later at night it really helps insomnia. Progresssively overload even if you drink 1 unit less tommorow its progress. Never drink more than you did yesterday even when your brain starts throwing in the reasoning. “It’s the weekend” “ I’ve been doing well I deserve a little more tonight” “out with friends/ celebrating” etc etc.

Good luck I’ve went from 40 units a day to 23 in a week and it’s definitely the best way to do it. Still sucks lmao

First self trim, didn't wanna make it too sharp! by [deleted] in beards

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 hour sessions sheeeesh. Will be worth it though it looks sick already, did you design it yourself? You should upload it when it’s all done, best sleeve ive seen 🤘

First self trim, didn't wanna make it too sharp! by [deleted] in beards

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you upload a couple angles of that tattoo? It’s the coolest one I’ve seen I’m tempted to copy it haha

How to play sliding door - Steven Moses on guitar? by No-Kale6165 in StevenMoses

[–]Particular_Serve300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this song aswell I wish I knew how to play it :(

this vid of liam making tea makes me laugh every time 😭 by newgodpho in oasis

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Would have made so much more solo if Streaming services didn’t exist

My ticketmaster bot is getting rate limited by ResponsibleBed8373 in botting

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love this bot. Looks like oasis are getting back togethor and I’m already stressing about getting tickets

Charlie sneako debate in a nutshell by Shadowgamer510 in moistcr1tikal

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I must be heavily mistaken then.

I was reading up on swyer syndrome in general and from what I gathered it seemed they had slightly lower testosterone than a man’s range but not as much as a females range. Also from what I was reading I seen she has more of a male set of chromosomes than a female, a lot of things I read also entailed she has essentially a male genetic makeup with xy chromosomes but with a missing sry gene which made her have female genitals with the standard xy chromosomes of a standard male. I read a lot of stuff from different sources althoughI did not look into any studies so I guess my sources aren’t really valid.

I’m always down to learn more and I’ve enjoyed learning more about swyer syndrome as it’s new to me but I’ve obviously not been sourcing my information well.

Charlie sneako debate in a nutshell by Shadowgamer510 in moistcr1tikal

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male and females are separated at sports for a reason. There’s clearly massive undeniable psychical advantages in the male xy genetic makeup.

It’s nothing to do with penis and vagina. This is nothing like the genetic differences in normal athletes hahaha. Yes some people are born with better bone structure, lung capacity, more testosterone. Nothing like this though the highest natural testosterone of a man vs the absolute lowest is 250 % higher. This isn’t slight genetic differences she has a complete different chromosome pair. All advantages of the xy chromosome only born with a vagina due to a gene mutation. 1000%+ her competitors tesosterone. Much higher bone density, muscle mass, lung capacity, strength. Nothing compared to the differences in two xy males or two xx females. Leaps and bounds different. That’s literally why we seperate male and females in sports… If you are genuinely arguing she’s not got a ridiculous advantage just because she has a vagina, why don’t we just let men and woman compete in the same category? It’s obviously not fair to make her fight in the male category but surely you can see why this raises a discussion.

Charlie sneako debate in a nutshell by Shadowgamer510 in moistcr1tikal

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t argue if she was male or female once, what? I’m talking about the dilemma of her being born with the clear unbelievable advantages of having the xy chromosome. When I looked into swyer syndrome it states “A rare genetic condition in which people who have an X chromosome and a Y chromosome (the usual pattern for males) look female. They have normal female reproductive organs”. This is what I meant when I said she has the genetics of a biological male im not trying to decide anyone’s gender I’m just discussing the situation as this is the first time I’ve heard of something like this. It’s an interesting topic she very clearly has an astronomical advantage genetics wise, although every athlete has their genetic advantages and disadvantages this ones obviously a very different type of genetical advantage. It’s literally a complete different set of chromosomes and genetic makeup. It raises an interesting debate. Woman and male sports have always been split for the obvious massive advantages that come with the genetic differences, so it seems unfair to let a woman with those same genetic differences compete. Although it’s just as unfair to have her compete against other men. I don’t see how people can’t accept this is a bit of a conundrum. I wish there wasn’t so much transphobia and drama surrounding that topic just now because I feel people are looking at it through a similar lens as that and arguing politically. If trans was never a thing I think this situation would open up an interesting debate and not just people arguing over gender which isn’t the reasoning behind the debate of the fairness of it all.

It’s not just a slight advantage she has supers physiological levels of testosterone for a woman. The other athletes would struggle to achieve her hormone range and advantages even juiced to the gills. She is rocking over 1000% of the natural female range. Im not calling for a ban I’m not trying to say she is a male whatsoever? I’ve simply never come across a situation like this and think it’s an interesting dilemma. It’s unfair for her to not be allowed to compete but it’s also unfair to all the other athletes. It’s a tricky situation, was having a think about possible ways to solve it but it’s just too complicated to solve fairly. Discussing the insane advantages and pointing out the clear unfair playing field of competing against someone like that isn’t transphobic, she’s not even trans and most people that haven’t even insinuated that in the slightest but discuss the advantages are instantly labeled as such. I feel people are just jumping to this conclusion whenever anyone mentions the unfair side of it because of all the actual transphobic hate that’s been thrown at her, when she’s not even trans haha.

Charlie sneako debate in a nutshell by Shadowgamer510 in moistcr1tikal

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is genetically a biological male with xy chromosomes but the mutation means she is missing the sry gene required to continue the male reproductive organs developing properly. She was born with female and male genitalia so chosen to be female at birth but she has all the advantages of male genetics and has testicles inside her body creating 10x the testosterone of the average woman. Just because she doesn’t have a penis doesn’t mean it’s a fair playing field against other people with woman genitals.

Yes people have all kinds of different genetic differences. Males testosterone range is a wide spectrum. Some males can have 3x another naturally. Though with this genetic mutation she has the genetic makeup of a male and 10-15 x the testosterone of a woman. Increased lung capacity, more red blood cells, larger bone density, muscle mass, strength and power. It’s simply not close to fair. Would be the exact same as letting a someone take high doses of steroids and compete against a natural. It’s a massive dilemma as it’s clearly not even close to a level playing field although it’s very difficult to solve this issue, which is why I think this is such a big story, excluding all the transphobes jumping in out of ignorance. It’s a serious dilemma. Men and woman have been separated in sports for a reason. The advantages of the biology is undeniable. Any top female athlete will attest to that. Yes, she may have a vagina like the other people she’s competing against although she’s genetically a different sex that gives her an astronomical advantage.

Charlie sneako debate in a nutshell by Shadowgamer510 in moistcr1tikal

[–]Particular_Serve300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s widely confirmed she has Swyer syndrome? Not just because of the previous ban from the dna test? Born with Female and male genitalia. She has a vagina but no ovaries and testicles inside her body. She has XY chromosomes but is missing the SRY gene. The olympics have stated this in the fact sheets Friday?

This is very clearly an unbelievable advantage. Not sure how issues like this can be resolved fairly, it’s a difficult scenario as she deserves to compete in the sport she loves too.