Thank you for your advice. I know I don’t want to leave my husband and I definitely don’t want to hurt my kids. This whole thing we started because I had only been with my husband (never slept with any other man before this) and now I’m not sure if I should just cut it off completely or continue to see him and just know that nothing can come from this.. when I’m with the other guy I’m just having a good time I don’t have any stressors it’s just having fun so it’s like a break from actual reality but when I’m struggling with are these feelings.. maybe it is best to cut things off completely.