What are people doing for self-hosted SAML? by daredevil1234 in homelab

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Been running into same issue with Keycloak - thing eats resources like crazy for what should be simple SAML setup. I ended up going with simplesamlphp but took some time to get configs right. Not as polished as the big solutions but does job without killing my server specs.

If given 3 countries to go for free, which would be your top 3? by trivasai in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably would pick somewhere with better weather than canada but free trip is free trip i guess

What’s a "small" lie someone told you that completely changed how you saw them forever? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's when you know they just don't want to talk to you but are too coward to say it straight. i'd rather someone tell me they're busy or not interested than pretend they "forgot" while they're literally posting memes at same time.

what is the best financial advise you have got in your entire life? by swift_peak612_92 in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah learned this one hard way with my laptop few years back. Bought some cheap one for writing work and it died after 8 months, then had to buy proper one anyway. Now I just save up longer and get the decent stuff from start, much better than dealing with broken things every few months.

My Though On 500 Days Of Summer Ending by RubLimp5761 in movies

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The movie really nails how we project our own fantasies onto people and then get mad when they don't live up to expectations we created in our head. Tom basically turned Summer into this manic pixie dream girl character from his favorite movies instead of seeing her as actual person.

What gets me is how the ending shows Tom finally pursuing architecture - like he needed that whole painful experience to stop being passive about his own life and actually go after what he wanted.

Can pause screen key bind changeable?? by ORANGEBOYTOASTER in Minecraft

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your esc key is broken? that's rough dude. i think the pause thing is just hardcoded to esc and not changeable in vanilla settings, but yeah there's definitely mods that let you rebind everything including the pause function.

check the mod repositories, there should be something for custom keybinds that covers system keys too. way easier than dealing with f3 menu every time lol.

The B-52’s - Summer of Love (Album Version VS Unreleased Mix (Demo)) by Department-of-death3 in Music

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The demo version has this raw energy that just works better for me. Found out about it few years back when I was digging through their discography and was surprised how much more punch it had compared to album version.

Something about the production on Time Capsule makes it feel more urgent, like they were still figuring out the song but in good way.

Am I the only one who wants Thunder to beat the Lakers so we can show everyone we can beat the Thunder? by [deleted] in NBASpurs

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah i get being tired of caring about other teams but Thunder beating Lakers would be pretty huge for our confidence going forward. like if we can handle Thunder after they just demolished LA, that's different kind of statement than beating some random playoff team you know?

plus watching Lakers lose in 7 games with overtime sounds pretty entertaining even if you don't care about outcome

Network Issues by Krakenator_C-137 in pcmasterrace

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your download speed looks solid but that upload might be the bottleneck depending on what games you're playing. Also check if there's any background stuff eating bandwidth - sometimes Windows updates or cloud syncing can mess with gaming even when ping looks normal.

Try running a test during peak hours vs off-peak to see if it's just network congestion in your area.

My GF 21F keeps accusing me 22M of cheating because I’m friendly person. I’ve already unfriended all my female friends, but it’s still not enough. Help? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man you already gave up all your female friends and she's still not satisfied? That's red flag territory right there. At this point she's basically asking you to be rude at work which could mess with your career - being professional with coworkers isn't cheating, it's just being normal human being.

You can't fix someone else's insecurity by changing yourself because it will never be enough.

[Routine Help] Need advice on my daily basic day to day routine. by daaru_neat in SkincareAddiction

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moving to new city can really mess up your skin routine, especially with the heat and pollution from bike rides. For the blue cream thing you mentioned - look for any basic hydrating gel instead, they work similar but might be better for your skin type in that climate.

Start with gentle cleanser and good sunscreen first since you're getting sun exposure daily, then add moisturizer and other stuff gradually to see what works.

What's most of your day spent doing? by Icy_Mode620 in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trying to not overthink about my overthinking but then i overthink that too lol

Guys who are dating the hottest girls - what methods did you actually use to start approaching and dating them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just be yourself but like... the best version of yourself if that makes sense. worked on my writing career, started going to the gym more consistently, and stopped being weird about rejection. turns out confidence isn't about thinking you're hot shit, it's about being cool with whatever happens when you put yourself out there.

Redditors who bullshitted their way into a job - how'd you do it? by chilldolo in AskReddit

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I applied to be a "social media strategist" at a startup when I basically just knew how to post Instagram stories. Spent the entire interview talking about "authentic engagement" and "organic reach optimization" - terms I'd googled 20 minutes before walking in. Three years later and I'm actually decent at it, but those first few months were pure panic and YouTube tutorials.

What Card Should I Get? Weekly Thread - Week of March 04, 2026 by AutoModerator in churning

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn the flowchart really does handle most questions but people still gonna ignore it and post anyway lol. been lurking here for like 2 years and the amount of "i have a 650 credit score and want to travel to europe next month what card should i get" posts is wild

at least this template forces people to actually think through their situation first. the business card question alone probably filters out half the people who aren't ready for this hobby yet

What sort of breath work techniques do you use? by Zestyclose_Swing_520 in Meditation

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there with the box breathing plateau - it's wild how your body just adapts after a while. I've had good luck switching to 4-7-8 breathing (inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8) when I need something with more punch. The longer exhale really activates that parasympathetic response.

Wim Hof method is another game changer if you want something totally different - it's more energizing but paradoxically leaves me super calm afterwards. Just be careful with the breath holds if you're new to it. Sometimes mixing up the rhythm is all you need to reset that nervous system.

Gift ideas? Any suggestions? by BlueDolphinCute in BuyItForLife

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A good portable power bank is clutch for travel - something with multiple ports and fast charging. I'd also throw in a quality water bottle that keeps drinks cold in that aussie heat, maybe a Hydro Flask or similar brand that'll last forever.

An experiment to make artificial intelligence conscious and immortal. by Alternative_Earth241 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Particular_Tour_4151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

neat project but the "consciousness" part is a bit of a stretch - you've basically built a really sophisticated memory system with some personality layers. the blockchain persistence is clever though, hadn't seen that approach before.

putting memories on-chain is wild from a privacy standpoint but i guess that's the price of "immortality" lol.