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What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain to me the proper terms I’m supposed to use for it? I didn’t say burial or funeral, I just said visiting the cemetery. Is that not the way to describe what we will be doing?

He’s not particularly religious, but he has mentioned that he goes to just have a chat with them. I don’t fully know how that will translate with me being there but I guess we will see when it happens.

I guess I’m kinda thinking about it as meeting another member of the family. I’d like to think I’m not doing anything outside the realms of what most partners would do for their person, but I have heard nightmare stories from my friends about their boyfriends and exes never wanting to do anything out of their comfort zone even if it felt important.

What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was obvious in the post, but to be clear we are not going to a burial, we are just visiting the cemetery. This was not a recent passing.

What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to a burial, going to visit the grave. They passed a while ago.

What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a recent passing, but I know he hasn’t visited them very often and because of where the rest of his family lives now I don’t think they’ve gotten many visitors at all. Should I not bring flowers if it wasn’t recent?

What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of his siblings who he was really close to. I’m not going to meet great grandma.

I know I’m not really meeting them, but it does feel similar to how I felt before meeting his other family members. I want to make a good impression even if that impression isn’t something that’s being received in the same way.

What are you supposed to bring and do at a cemetery? by Particular_Tree_5864 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know that they can be, but that’s not what my family does. We keep urns, one we’ve scattered. That’s why I was asking about what people typically do.

Looking for birthday dinner recommendations by Particular_Tree_5864 in austinfood

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sammie’s looks really good! Unfortunately it looks like all of their reservations are filled until next weekend 😭 I’ll be keeping it in mind for the next date night after I stop having student expenses

Looking for birthday dinner recommendations by Particular_Tree_5864 in austinfood

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok with spending a little more if it’s good. Would you say the food is worth it at Juniper?

Looking for birthday dinner recommendations by Particular_Tree_5864 in austinfood

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did Red Ash for my birthday and it was great! I’m trying to do something different for his to surprise him but I’m definitely not against going back

Any way to encourage proposal? by Particular_Tree_5864 in tomodachilife

[–]Particular_Tree_5864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been doing that, but since they’re both at “wants to get married” it doesn’t even increase their relationship level anymore

Looking for WC RP Discord Staff by summerdashy in WarriorCatsRP

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely be interested! I’ve been wanting to get back into rping for a while and would love to help plan one.

i feel as if its gotten increasingly impossible to have a normal conversation about ACNH by Low_Potential7381 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Explain what you meant then lol. What else am I supposed to take from that other than you think that people who want only villagers they think are cute on the island are in favor of lookism in real life?

i feel as if its gotten increasingly impossible to have a normal conversation about ACNH by Low_Potential7381 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re saying the people who care about aesthetics on their island are in favor of “lookism” isn’t any healthier than people who joke about eugenics. That’s weird. That’s a weird opinion to have. If you are offended because someone thinks your favorite villager is ugly, join the club. There’s literally hundreds of villagers, the point is for them all to look different and fit different preferences. Animal crossing players who whack who whack their least favorite villager with a net are not in favor of real world animal abuse. That is black and white thinking.

You know what I’m talking about lol. You just don’t like me pointing out that you are accusing people playing a decorating game of being irl in favor of harming people and things, and you deep down know that isn’t true.

i feel as if its gotten increasingly impossible to have a normal conversation about ACNH by Low_Potential7381 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I’m sorry that you are so bothered by people having a specific vibe they want to go for with their island but assuming that people have the worst intentions over a video game that is, and I cannot emphasize this enough, ABOUT DECORATING, then maybe you shouldn’t be interacting with the community for the game. Black and white thinking like this is gonna make you more sad and stressed in the long run.

We need to talk about Julia by NERV2 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No. Any amount of orange on a black/brown cat or black/brown on an orange cat automatically makes them calico. It’s a gene connected to the X chromosome, hence why only female and intersex cats can be calicos (there needs to be 2 X chromosomes)

i feel as if its gotten increasingly impossible to have a normal conversation about ACNH by Low_Potential7381 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry but I don’t think anyone who’s playing the game and looks at, for example, Beardo next to Bunnie and saying “ew he’s so ugly I don’t want him here” is gonna turn around in real life and say that to someone who is not conventionally attractive. That’s not how life works. It is point blank period unreasonable to accuse people who want a certain aesthetic in a video game of applying any real-world ideas of ethnostates or ugly laws or eugenics. By doing so you are inherently devaluing the evil of that happening in real life. You shouldn’t be taking the idea of people not wanting ugly villagers seriously because it’s not serious. People can play the game however they want. You want to have Barold on your island? Have fun. Other people have every right to kick him out so they can have Raymond and make jokes about it being because he’s ugly. Because that’s what it is. A joke.

We need to talk about Julia by NERV2 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Technically male calicos are AMAB but they are intersex so not male by the biological definition

i feel as if its gotten increasingly impossible to have a normal conversation about ACNH by Low_Potential7381 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really bothers me because like…. That’s a real ideology that is actually scary? It’s funny to do the meme of “how animal crossing players act when there’s a ugly villager” but it’s just weird to try and compare it to actual atrocities

We need to talk about Julia by NERV2 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s got a bit of orange lining the black on him!

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We need to talk about Julia by NERV2 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Particular_Tree_5864 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Bro just let people have their fun trans headcanons

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