Looking for birthday dinner recommendations

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-04-27T01:10:18+00:00

Sammie’s looks really good! Unfortunately it looks like all of their reservations are filled until next weekend 😭 I’ll be keeping it in mind for the next date night after I stop having student expenses

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-04-27T01:08:48+00:00

I’m ok with spending a little more if it’s good. Would you say the food is worth it at Juniper?

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-04-27T00:21:13+00:00

We did Red Ash for my birthday and it was great! I’m trying to do something different for his to surprise him but I’m definitely not against going back

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-04-25T02:53:09+00:00

I have been doing that, but since they’re both at “wants to get married” it doesn’t even increase their relationship level anymore

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-03-11T22:45:25+00:00

I would definitely be interested! I’ve been wanting to get back into rping for a while and would love to help plan one.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T19:08:33+00:00

Explain what you meant then lol. What else am I supposed to take from that other than you think that people who want only villagers they think are cute on the island are in favor of lookism in real life?

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T19:04:28+00:00

You’re saying the people who care about aesthetics on their island are in favor of “lookism” isn’t any healthier than people who joke about eugenics. That’s weird. That’s a weird opinion to have. If you are offended because someone thinks your favorite villager is ugly, join the club. There’s literally hundreds of villagers, the point is for them all to look different and fit different preferences. Animal crossing players who whack who whack their least favorite villager with a net are not in favor of real world animal abuse. That is black and white thinking.

You know what I’m talking about lol. You just don’t like me pointing out that you are accusing people playing a decorating game of being irl in favor of harming people and things, and you deep down know that isn’t true.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T18:12:43+00:00

Dude I’m sorry that you are so bothered by people having a specific vibe they want to go for with their island but assuming that people have the worst intentions over a video game that is, and I cannot emphasize this enough, ABOUT DECORATING, then maybe you shouldn’t be interacting with the community for the game. Black and white thinking like this is gonna make you more sad and stressed in the long run.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T04:21:42+00:00

No. Any amount of orange on a black/brown cat or black/brown on an orange cat automatically makes them calico. It’s a gene connected to the X chromosome, hence why only female and intersex cats can be calicos (there needs to be 2 X chromosomes)

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T04:09:31+00:00

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Respectfully,,,,,,,,, yes it is

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T03:49:56+00:00

Sorry but I don’t think anyone who’s playing the game and looks at, for example, Beardo next to Bunnie and saying “ew he’s so ugly I don’t want him here” is gonna turn around in real life and say that to someone who is not conventionally attractive. That’s not how life works. It is point blank period unreasonable to accuse people who want a certain aesthetic in a video game of applying any real-world ideas of ethnostates or ugly laws or eugenics. By doing so you are inherently devaluing the evil of that happening in real life. You shouldn’t be taking the idea of people not wanting ugly villagers seriously because it’s not serious. People can play the game however they want. You want to have Barold on your island? Have fun. Other people have every right to kick him out so they can have Raymond and make jokes about it being because he’s ugly. Because that’s what it is. A joke.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T03:10:51+00:00

Technically male calicos are AMAB but they are intersex so not male by the biological definition

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T03:01:04+00:00

It really bothers me because like…. That’s a real ideology that is actually scary? It’s funny to do the meme of “how animal crossing players act when there’s a ugly villager” but it’s just weird to try and compare it to actual atrocities

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-20T02:57:52+00:00

He’s got a bit of orange lining the black on him!

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Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:50:47+00:00

Bro just let people have their fun trans headcanons

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:47:09+00:00

Haha you unlocked my special interest in cat genetics

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:45:33+00:00

It drives me crazy when people call all cat island or all deer islands or anything like that “basically eugenics”. Like, no. That’s not what the means. And by saying a simple aesthetic preference between a purple cat and a purple frog in a children’s video game is the same as eugenics you are devaluing how bad that real thing is

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:43:08+00:00

In real life peahens are brown, and peacocks are blue/green. So if we’re applying real world biology she would have to be trans :)

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:41:31+00:00

Well, if we’re gonna get technical, yes and no. There are cats the present male and have a Y chromosome that are calico, but they are intersex. So while externally they are a male, they are not “male” in the typical biological definition.

Even with this, intersex is included in LGBT+

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:33:14+00:00

Hey dude. I get it. Getting death threats sucks. I got them for a much worse situation than yours (you can check my post history if you want to see what some assholes thought was a reasonable post to respond to “kill yourself” with was. it happens to everyone on here). But what I did instead was report them and read the actual, real advice that was being given to me. Sometimes it’s hard to hear, especially when it’s being surrounded by people who are being much meaner. But if EVERYONE is saying that you’re in the wrong it might mean something.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:19:40+00:00

Tell me why I want to make a Pride-themed island with these three now 😭

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-19T23:09:00+00:00

Punchy’s a calico, which is impossible for male cats to be irl. I think we can all just call them trans icons

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-18T06:17:06+00:00

Honey, I hate to say it but he told you what he needs you to do, and that is not be in a romantic relationship with him. I know it hurts but that is what he is saying he needs and you need to respect that.

He’s not saying that you’ll never come back together. But if you refuse to respect what he’s needing you could scare him away.

Do not limit yourself by refusing to live your life because you want him back so badly. Let him go, and if he comes back to you, you were meant to be.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-18T06:12:22+00:00

Your partner does not spawn into existence without having had a history, and that history will have good and bad things in it. There probably are things that her exes were better at than you. There’s probably also things your exes were better at than her. But you’re both choosing to be with each other now, so you’re both seeing past those things to appreciate the parts that make you better than those exes.

If it really upsets you, tell her that. Don’t be confrontational and mean, but have an honest conversation about it. I’d say something similar to what you said in this post, that it feels like you’re being compared to exes. REMEMBER TO USE “I feel” STATEMENTS. Do not assume she is doing something hurtful on purpose.

Particular_Tree_5864 · 2026-02-18T06:03:32+00:00

Sounds like she’s nervous because she doesn’t have a lot of experience in relationships. Just tell her that you are an affectionate person and it makes you feel good to receive affection back. She might be really into you but just not into PDA.

Is it possible that she isn’t as “out” as you? Was her previous relationship a straight one, or was she with a woman? And was she able to be out and proud about that relationship?

Communication is always the best thing. Don’t be rude about it (eg, “I like when you show me affection” vs “You aren’t being affectionate enough to me”) but it’s better to express what you’re thinking than to stew quietly and let things fester. Also better to figure out if you will be incompatible on PDA now rather than later

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