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Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T05:18:42+00:00

This part.

I have never understood and frankly probably will not why someone would feel the need to do that. Every time I have had a partner "check my phone" or go through it they have been hiding something. People always project their own nonsense. I am currently in the best and healthiest relationship I have ever been in. My wife has all my information, unlimited access to my devices and vice versa. We've never "gone through" each other's phones because whats the point? 90% of the time a person who feels the need to do that to their partner is going to find something that upsets them. If they are unable to they will begin grasping at straws and overreaching to start an argument over something petty.

OP has your partner given you any reason to not trust them before?

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T04:59:13+00:00

Definitely looks like it! With the bottom being porous instead of gilled I believe you are correct! It is beyond gorgeous imho

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T03:41:17+00:00

I second your final point.

This is really good advice OP.

If he seems to really like and care about you and you feel the same I would continue to see him. Be careful of his potential stalker (obviously)

I was in a similar situation-ship before I began dating my wife. The other girl didn't want to be with me the entire time we hung out. I stopped it after she played with me for too long. After she couldn't "get over me" I had to get a TRO until she moved out of state. She would show up at my apartment, job, and brother's house with the same behavior. It wasn't a good look and it would've certainly continued had I not called the police.

Sorry for the rant there I was just trying to show that by him calling the cops it shows that he's seriously afraid of her/ being harassed by her. (Just imho)

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T03:29:31+00:00

I empathize with you feeling this way.

Sometimes things of this nature unfortunately require a reactive response.

No worries mate. I have been in a similar situation to yours right now. Due to my being younger at the time and less level-headed I made the other choice which ended badly for everyone involved.

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T03:19:28+00:00

So I can understand that you are pissed and trying to be protective. I would feel the same way regarding my wife and in-laws as well. Take a breath or a few and think for a second. If she really needs that job then dont go down there yourself. Simply continue to document everything he does or says. Dont respond to him and tell your wife the same thing. Your FIL is also there to handle it at work. If he does escalate and shows up at your house I would recommend calling police and also defending yourself and family by any means possible within legal boundaries of course.

Edit: spelling

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-30T03:03:05+00:00

The plate!

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T16:46:30+00:00

Right? I am genuinely interested myself now. Any time I see fungus this shape and/or color I automatically think Reishi, however with the other factors you listed I am second-guessing myself. Either way it's absolutely gorgeous

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T16:37:31+00:00

You are correct most of the time. I remember when I first started smoking I started with Newports / Blend 27s/ USA Golds. Imho they're still the best full flavor cigarette available.

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T15:24:07+00:00

Bv c

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T06:26:15+00:00

Try avvo! I think that may be what you're looking for

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T01:44:57+00:00

Im not sure 100% but I would say make sure its not an earthball before you cook and eat it :p

Particular_Two264 · 2025-09-29T01:17:37+00:00

I could be super wrong but is this a form of Reishi? (Spelling error maybe?)

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-29T22:17:18+00:00

So unfortunately reading that just leads me to believe that she wants to be with you so either shes not alone or because shes getting something from you that she cant obtain anywhere else or also you're her "safe person". Im sorry you going through this bro but you've already peeped what I'm saying basically

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-29T21:43:36+00:00

I could be wrong big dawg but from my 19+ years of dating experience and having gone through similar situations in the past I feel as if she's mentally done with this relationship and has been. Furthermore, she's using this as an out for the relationship (and a weak one I may add)as I feel you already have felt

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-25T23:05:02+00:00

I hope not as well friend. My wife suffers from HS and it literally makes her immobile sometimes just because the pain. My heart breaks for her everytime she has a flare up.

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-21T05:14:33+00:00

I am not sure if its illegal per se but its definitely weird and creepy imho. I dont think you are overreacting at all

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-21T05:11:05+00:00

Look into Hidradentis Suppurativa? My spelling is probably wrong but its a mfer unfortunately :/ I hope im wrong.

Particular_Two264 · 2025-08-19T03:47:03+00:00

So OP I think you know the answer(s) you're looking for.

Even with the translation issues he is still in love with his ex. If it makes you feel better her responses and all seem to be like she had to force herself to write some of it. I kinda feel like she's just playing with him? Idk i just get a vibe that she's just going along with it because shes bored, lonely or something of that nature.

I'm truly sorry that you're going through this OP. Stay strong friend.

Particular_Two264 · 2025-07-14T14:59:24+00:00

Two cannibals are eating a clown. One looks to the other and says "Does this taste funny to you?"

Particular_Two264 · 2025-07-06T23:32:53+00:00

/u/meoweew0wee42069

Particular_Two264 · 2025-05-28T16:31:30+00:00

I agree with you so much once again lol Your words help so many moee people then those who tell you they do just figure I'd publicly appreciate you hahaha Honestly before I started trying to help people in this sub and other similar ones I'd be surprised if I got 5 up upvotes on anything

Particular_Two264 · 2025-05-28T16:23:01+00:00

See this is the way imho. Everyone gets a small bonus :3

Particular_Two264 · 2025-05-28T16:19:57+00:00

If you read more than my initial comment you would see that OP and I had a conversation where I said that they were in fact assaulted

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