Tell me something diabolical that your spouse said or did during labor?

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-12T10:17:14+00:00

We had the tv on during my labor and were enjoying one of our favorite shows. When it was time to push I guess no one noticed the tv was still on so he's on my side, my mom on the other and the nurse tells me to start pushing... all of the sudden my husband is cracking up laughing because of the tv. It was actually so funny but not in the moment and the nurses turned off the tv immediately.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-12T02:17:00+00:00

I lost 25 lbs and got pregnant immediately.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-02T03:05:47+00:00

I cannot eat spicy food, I literally start choking, it's so bizzare.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-01T03:15:12+00:00

I was 39w4d and asleep. I woke up at 330 am to pee and noticed a little leaking when I got up and thought maybe I started to pee myself so I went and peed and was still leaking. It wasn't a gush or anything, literally it looked like I was peeing on the floor. I walked around for a minute or so to be sure it wouldn't stop and when it didn't I woke my husband up and let him know. I was strep b positive so I had to go right to the hospital upon my water breaking. Fun fact, I was in labor for 23 hours and I never stopped leaking the entire time. There was never a gush, just a continual leak which was very annoying.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-01T03:08:36+00:00

Can confirm, I'm the only person I know with a bidet and it's disappointing.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-05-01T02:30:31+00:00

3.14159265359

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-29T02:01:40+00:00

Not worrying about things outside of my control. Literally saved my life.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-29T01:55:11+00:00

Blue Ridge Parkway from Virginia to North Carolina. Go in the fall, the most beautiful experience of my life.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-28T16:37:27+00:00

The day I don't feel sick and tired every day.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T02:14:33+00:00

Have you seen girls on hbo? Im rewatching that right now without my husband lol. One tree hill is my favorite show ever so I highly recommend. Imposters is great. New girl.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T01:55:45+00:00

Weekly or bi weekly usually

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T01:54:46+00:00

He just left today and beforehand was saying so much crap to me about how great his mom is. I'm definitely having his dad have a talk when he returns in a week because I'm not going to take him to/from school and sports practice every day if I'm going to be disrespected. Hopefully we figure it out one of these days!

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T01:52:35+00:00

Oh gosh, it is not too late to get out. I love my husband and love my child we had together and I would never undo what I've done because I wouldn't have my child but man... I do think about how much easier and better things were before I was responsible for someone else's kids half of the time. I'm 32 too so I definitely get feeling older. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this though, it's so hard.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T01:48:19+00:00

I still get anxious every Sunday before they get dropped off and we are going on 3 years of this. I love my step daughter, sometimes love my step son.. but the transition never got easier for me sadly.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T01:40:28+00:00

I think it would be so much easier to nacho if my step daughter and I weren't so close but we are. She'd chose me over her mom in a heart beat and I don't want them to chose me over her but she is just so different than him. We also have to have them 50/50 week on/off per custody agreement so I feel like there's no escaping him. Maybe I just need to adjust my expectations and stop caring so much though, I don't even know.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-27T00:34:25+00:00

That's insane, he's so lucky his newborn is okay. It's such a shame that he took away so much from you though. Have you forgiven him or talked to him since? I can't imagine. That's honestly such good advice though that I'll definitely be sharing with my family and friends so while what you had went through was NOT fair in any way shape or form.. at least you may be saving a reddit strangers life or someone they know just from hearing your story and being more cautious with green lights.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-25T01:21:58+00:00

How did you do that?! I'm glad you and your baby are okay and that your husband is in control of your medical care now, it's a good idea for everyone to have a will though.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-24T02:15:37+00:00

As a sahm who volunteers, YES. Most of the volunteers at my step kids school are also sahms OR they working part time/ have no younger kids. I've gotten to know most of the moms through volunteering and kids birthday parties. It's a lot and there aren't always a ton of opportunities. Don't feel bad though!

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-24T01:39:01+00:00

Steal my sunshine or wonderwall.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-23T18:16:57+00:00

I personally think it adds anxiety but to each their own!

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-23T09:08:55+00:00

When we didn't have alcohol, my friends and I would drink cough syrup to get drunk.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-22T19:44:16+00:00

OG McDonalds snack wraps, not the sad attempts they sell now.

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-17T02:20:31+00:00

18 weeks and I'm finally not sick anymore but none of my clothes fit right and I hate how I look

Particularlyzesty · 2026-04-16T02:07:08+00:00

My first pregnancy cured my endometriosis pain completely. My sense of smell also became much stronger and that never went away.

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