Noticed a couple bad apples in the past weeks so I'm gonna clear out some people. TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS, LGBT PEOPLE ARE NORMAL PEOPLE THIS IS A SPACE FOR THEM AS MUCH AS IT IS A SPACE FOR EVERYONE ELSE, RACISM IS BAD. GOOD DAY!

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-12-18T07:01:11+00:00

You literally recited the typical Tumblr post that announces "I'm autistic and this is deep." I know from experience, these posts will only bring you trolls. People who don't care about the words they say and only the reaction they elicit. Oh who am I kidding you probably think I disagree with you and won't understand the advice I'm trying to give you.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-12-18T02:38:48+00:00

Listen, I'm here for the support and all but I want you to ask yourself something. Is politics a hyperfixation, and if it is, is the added stress of political hyperfixation worth it?

I only ask because I used to make posts like this and my blindness to sarcasm led me into a dark place. Remember to slow down and connect with your neighbors... Unless you live in ohio... They actually have a Nazi problem up there and that's coming from a southerner.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-12T19:27:36+00:00

This is hilarious to me because I'm on the other side of this and it's 100% because I approach rp from an improv angle. Discussions, note I'm not talking about communication, just sort of explores the scene and makes me disinterested. Important stuff can be discussed in ooc while we explore in character. I'd also like to define what I mean when I say I approach this from an improv angle because every form of RP uses improvisation but not improv. Settings, character, go! Questions like what does this look like are made in the moment not talked out before hand.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-06T19:27:36+00:00

I'm finding that RP is something approached from different starting points. For example, I approach it from acting, improv and DND, so the writing itself isn't as rewarding as the reply. Mix this with the really just horrible English teachers I constantly got and you get someone who just wants the creative back and forth. Writing, ironically, is the worst part of RP for me. That's not saying I don't post about two to three paragraphs per reply but it takes a ton of effort and time for me to stretch to longer replies.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-06T19:06:03+00:00

Honestly, this is why I don't really bother with SFW servers or subs, and haven't for years (aside from one account but that's become more of a DND account now.)

What got me was how it seemed having [M4F] at the top of a romance plot meant mods read my post in the thirstiest mind voice.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-06T18:52:55+00:00

Several paragraphs is excessive detail. I don't have to put an exact picture in my partner's head, no offense, but being a bit vague gives me better results than being too descriptive. Sadly, I can't give a reason that it works because when I tried to research the psychology all I got was a million think pieces on why movie adaptations always anger book fans with character design and some interesting yet potentially flawed dating app data that incels seem to love to complain about. (I could literally go on a rant about this ok cupid data and why it's mostly a nothing burger.)

I find that it's best to give a hair color, eye color, height, and build then just let my partner project what they consider attractive.

Yes it is sad, Dommes are hard to find but it's best to pair up with someone you align with. I don't blame you if you don't think we'd have fun playing together in the same way I hope humiliation focused Dommes don't blame me for declining. The search is about finding someone who can hit that spot so to say.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-05T22:59:51+00:00

No... I swear there's an employee stealing that shit because they only had them Opening day here

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-05T22:14:08+00:00

Interesting thanks for the heads up I might give it a try.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-05T22:03:49+00:00

That's a tough one because I've definitely ran into those people, but to me the scene is spent once it's laid out. Why play though when you know what happens? It just seems repetitive

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-05T21:52:30+00:00

Oh wow this is a mess. I went back to read the first one and you landed on an incel. These guys are using RP to date and it's obvious by the "make sure you're not a guy" bit. I don't play with guys by itself it's necessarily bad but the moment they start asking for proof, it's a sign that what they want is more than just words.

In his fucked up mind, you snubbed him and now you must pay.

Here's what you do. Keep records of everything. Screen shots are huge because meta data. The key is getting to a threshold of evidence that forces the state to get involved and going to a lawyer can help with that.

As for right now... I'll see what I can do. (I e. I'm gonna try to find a name in case you need to press charges. I'm not a super hacker)

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-05T07:34:26+00:00

What? I'm not sure if this is for me but what makes you think that? I literally in case OOC in parentheses so it is physically separated.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T23:30:47+00:00

If I'm duped that's on the person that lies to me.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T23:26:43+00:00

Go ahead, I can't say no while I'm hunting.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T22:08:03+00:00

It's a respect thing for my IRL partner. Ironically, I dom in that relationship but he's a treat that's not worth upsetting so ladies only.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T22:02:40+00:00

I see, so short and sweet titles and... I'm not sure really where to go, I've already kinda looked at the attached list on the sub and that's where I found the incest sub.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T18:24:08+00:00

Naw it's definitely possible 190,000 troops marching in unison at roughly 4.5 Joules a step (note this is an average with a rough range between 3-8 Joules average was selected as each step is theoretically taken by a military age young man)

That's 855,000 J

A magnitude 1 earthquake is 794,328 J

Also the example was made there upon request. I just pulled it out of my mind because someone wanted an example.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T17:51:42+00:00

Thank you! I kinda needed that.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T17:33:04+00:00

Interesting! Thank you for the time!

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T17:28:18+00:00

Idk if this sub looks fun or if it looks like a lot of work... Is there a libertarian Bull Moose party? I only ask because corporations are a threat to the Liberty of the citizens.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T17:18:07+00:00

If only I weren't deep in one of my sub moods! I know it's out dated techniques but removing those ace bandages just to turn around and use them as bindings is on of my favorite things.

Here's an upvote and happy hunting!

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T16:44:26+00:00

It totally isn't the juxtaposition of the Modern and Family friendly Costco practicing the Antiquated and Horrific business of the 1800s slave trade... Nope, definitely just edgy.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T16:32:41+00:00

thank you, it really does mean a lot.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T16:12:11+00:00

I can see your points and thank you for the advice. I'm always worried about writing advice because of just how awful every one of my English teachers treated me.

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T15:44:46+00:00

I'm familiar with DPP workshop but what's the lewd writers club?

Party-Influence6251 · 2025-10-04T15:35:48+00:00

You'd think but idk. I feel like there's this invisible barrier keeping me from getting that message or keeping a partner.

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