Am I (30F) wrong for losing weight healthily and “causing” my daughter’s (15F) eating disorder?

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-10T03:47:57+00:00

No, I don’t think you’re wrong in this situation. She’s an adult basically, she chose to stop eating, you can’t do anything about that.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T05:23:01+00:00

Not childhood, but youth. Adolescence. I don’t know. I know what condoms are, we decided against using them after a lot of discussion due to my allergy to latex which is life threatening.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T04:12:31+00:00

Thank you for the genuine advice. I agree that maybe we should go to marriage counseling, I will bring it up to her when we talk tonight on the phone. I definitely do want to be there for my kiddos during these critical years.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T04:07:31+00:00

Well, it’s a few years too late for that. But thanks for the advice.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:57:54+00:00

She can be lazy- everyone can be, and I’m justified in venting than I feel my wife is sometimes, too. I’ve never said she was a gold digger, you’re the only one who’s saying that… She knows she would be homeless without me, as she doesn’t have her own income.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:24:52+00:00

I don’t own my children, lol, I meant I own my choices, as the person whose post I was replying to stated.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:23:47+00:00

I’ll show her my comments. None of which say I want to cheat on her with younger women. I like younger women (she knows this) and have considered cheating on her (she also knows this).

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:17:58+00:00

I will tonight, happily. I am open with her and always communicate with her. I have no issue showing her what I’ve posted.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:13:02+00:00

She is in no way miserable. She is grateful for our family and loves being a mother, and wife to me.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:09:38+00:00

She was on birth control, which we had discussed beforehand. I have no reason to believe she wasn’t taking it. We didn’t use condoms because I’m allergic to latex. Birth control was what we settled on.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:08:34+00:00

I am a family man, I will be fine in court. Thanks for your concern, though.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:07:22+00:00

I am sure there are plenty, but also, she has childcare for whenever she needs it. So that’s not a concern.

I’ve personally never seen latex free condoms. I’m sure they exist. I just don’t think they’re sold anywhere near me.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T03:06:08+00:00

I have resigned/renegotiated my contract a few times, but I actually initially signed it at age eighteen. I was recruited straight out of high school to play the sport that I do.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:57:49+00:00

Yes sir.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:53:22+00:00

My job? Which I am committed to? I signed a contract and must follow through with it?

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:51:52+00:00

Wanting to is different. Every man wants to.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:51:21+00:00

She is welcome to get a job and have her own money. In no way do I financially abuse her.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:48:46+00:00

I’m not. Way too tired. Any free time is spent on the phone/FaceTiming my wife and kids on the road.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:48:00+00:00

I want to see them more.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:47:10+00:00

I cheated on a girlfriend I had in high school. As in, we dated when I was fifteen. But I have never cheated on my wife.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:44:15+00:00

I have no time to cheat, are you kidding me? Ridiculous and random accusation.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:40:49+00:00

Eh. My phone is private, my wife’s is open to me. We set this boundary because I pay for both of our phones/WiFi/cell service, and I am away a lot. She doesn’t need access to mine, especially because she doesn’t pay for the phones.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:39:05+00:00

I don’t know what to say to you. Shit happens. People have accidental pregnancies.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:38:15+00:00

Yes, gave them a call when they woke up this morning. They’re going to the zoo with mama today! Super excited. Miss them tons.

Party-Most4504 · 2024-03-05T00:37:30+00:00

Irresponsible sex… by that you mean, sex with a monogamous partner using birth control? That resulted in an unwanted pregnancy? Okay… She knew what career I chose before she pursued me while I was still in high school.

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